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My husband and I got pulled over one time, and the officer asked him to get out of the truck. Another officer then showed up. While I'm sitting in the passenger seat, they talk to him at the rear of the vehicle. I'm sitting there wondering what the heck is possibly going on. But I still just sat there. Then one of the cops came up to my window and asked for my license. He looked at it and asked me where we were headed, etc. Finally, after what seemed like forever, my husband came back to the truck. He said, "You have to drive." I'm like "what?" Turns out we were pulled over for a busted tail light, and then hubby had an outstanding ticket (stop sign) that he forgot to pay. They ended up letting him go and he could fix the suspended license the next workday, but I had to drive.I have a question. When someone commits a minor traffic offense and a police car is driving behind them and he suspects maybe the
person is drunk, or high or up to something.
Doesn't he pull them over? Then he begins to observe the situation, asking a normal question, looking in the vehicle, checking to see
if the person is okay?
If you are smoking a cig and he asks you to put it out, because a cig can be a distraction being used by the driver to conceal their breath, or their state of mind, or just the cig is distracting and right now you need to just focus on the officer.
I don't know any police officer that would know right away that she is who she is a nice person, an activist. He is going by what he sees.
He doesn't know what she has in the car, if she is drunk. She is being strange, he then asks her to get out of the vehicle, she refuses.
Is he trying to see if she is drunk? Hiding something?
Why won't she get out? The officer is asking himself this question. IS he suppose to let her go?
What if this story went another way, what if SHE was a criminal, maybe she IS DRUNK, maybe she has warrants, maybe she is hiding drugs under her drivers seat. Would he have been a hero for not just writing her a ticket?
I understand that her deathis suspicious and I agree it needs to be looked at, but she really didn't help her situation.
I once was approached by two police offers while I sat in my BFs car on my street. He asked us both to get out and he thought I rolled my eyes and he literrally said to me "Bi*ch are you rolling your eyes at me?" I was 17. I did nothing to provoke him and I did not roll my eyes. THAT RIGHT THERE was NOT OKAY. But I don't see this officer doing that right off the bat. I also did not argue with officer who said this to me. He thought I was a hooker! which was absurd since I was just a kid. He realized once I got out of the car and he spoke to me for a few minutes that he was reading the situation wrong. He apologized and let us go. MY point is, he didn't know me from a hooker and didn't know I was just a kid until I came out of the car and he was able to talk to me.
I am not Black by the way.
I am just saying here that she was quick to be defiant and he just didn't know why. MO
Such little things really....and here I was sitting up there thinking my husband had killed someone or was smuggling heroin or something. I felt like the two cops and the time we spent pulled over were overkill, but we were polite and all went well. We're white. I'm sure the situation would not have gone as smoothly had we not been cooperative. A little respect goes a long way... I was taught to respect people in authority positions, even if I didn't agree with them.
I think what the cop did was excessive according to the video, but I can't see in the vehicle and see what he saw. I mean, I find it farfetched to think that he was doing all this because he wanted to. Just to be hateful. And allllll the people at the jail were bored, so they decided they'd just kill someone for no reason, and do all the associated extra paperwork, etc. And the mugshot? Omg....I can't even believe people are saying that she looks already dead. She looks like crap....yeah, but have you scrolled through mugshots.com lately? Ummm.....most people don't have coiffed hair and touched up makeup. They've been crying, their face is blotchy, and they look like crap. People obviously haven't seen enough dead people to know that their eyes and lips do not look like that post mortem. I could post two pictures of myself right now, too.....one were I'm "made up" and one where I am like I am now.....no makeup, scraggly hair. I'd look like crap, too.