BBM
Exactly. Don't worry

I am not and will never be one to accept such.
As I've already stated, I have several close relatives that are in LE and have been since I was born. It goes without saying I was taught very young how important LEO's are to our communities and to respect them. I do respect them and I'm extremely thankful to the women and men who put their lives on the line to serve and protect. But I was also equally taught to stand up for myself.
With that said, I do not agree in any way shape or form, with how BE handled this traffic stop. I found his behavior offense to say the least.
I would have been Sandra Bland as far as when he asked her to please put her cigarette out. (imo where BE chose to escalate the stop..the stop that should have been over) She didn't curse him nor refuse. Asking a question, last time I checked, is not unreasonable. Especially since she wasn't questioning a "lawful order."
But nooo, I keep reading online where people are saying "stupid, crazy woman is your cigarette that important?" No, people it is not and the cigarette wasn't the point
IMO. She simply asked WHY and IMO she did because she was likely thinking that what she was doing is not unlawful ..and oh she was right. Maybe thinking really why is he asking me to do this. She could have really wanted to know. Perhaps, she was thinking "is he trying to get me for something else?" I can go on and on speculating as to what her possible reasons were to asking, but I won't. Some can speculate she was just trying to argue with him and perhaps get a rise out of him. But just like me that is only speculating which means we're all merely guessing. At the end of the day, IMO, SB asking this question, in a matter-of-fact tone, with no cursing is beyond "OK" and definitely not "crazy" or "provoking" or anything else.
Instead of BE, handing her the warning or ticket and moving ahead with his day he just had to continue this traffic stop that should have been over. IMO, He had to show Sandra Bland "who is boss." Oh no, Sandra Bland was not allowed to ask this LEO a question. Who did she think she was?! He was going to let her know. He was going to show her who would have the last word, JMO. :naughty: ....And we all know how that proceeded to turn out.
BE's reaction to Sandra asking him a question regarding his "polite request" and what occurred thereafter told me all I need to know about him as a LEO. It is my hope that he is no longer in a position to interact with the public unless it is behind a desk ..a position that does not require weapons of any kind. IMO, he is a hot head with a very short fuse which imo doesn't make a good LEO.
I personally wouldn't be combative with a LEO BUT would I have asked a LEO that same question that SB did...YES. (well, if I smoked)
(I mean I would never in a million years expect to be aggressively told to exit my car because of a question I asked. I wouldn't even expect that if I did question a lawful order! Because, you know most motorists totally expect to be told to get out of their car, "yanked out" or even threatened to be "lit up" when you ask the LEO a question to a polite request and not even a lawful order

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You'd think, any professional, stable, non-ego maniac LEO would simply answer the question. He just could have given an explanation as to why he was asking. THEN, if she proceeded to refuse or mouth off at him - that's another thing but that is neither here nor there because as we all know the conversation was stopped by BE. With just one question from Sandra Bland - BE went from making a polite request to giving her an order to exit her vehicle and it continued to get worse from there.
Everything written above is only my opinion.