Night-owl
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1st BBM
I haven't seen anyone express that on this forum either because it would be just be too ridiculous.
2nd BBM
BE was on duty. BE was being paid to do his job at that traffic stop. BE was the trained LEO. He went through training as to how to handle all aspects of traffic stops. BE was trained to NOT escalate situations. He was trained to de-escalate situations. I don't care how many times Sandra Bland was stopped prior or how many violations she received. I don't care how many outstanding fines she had. Sandra Bland was not professionally trained in the do's and don'ts of a traffic stop. Therefore, IMO, it was BE's job to be the smart one and the one to maintain control of the situation. It was his job and only his job. I find it perplexing that one would hold Sandra Bland to a higher standard to be the "smart one" or the one to remain "in control" or even to hold her equally. BE is the LEO which means he is supposed to be the one who knows what to do in situations and what not to do. MOO.
In response to your post in general:
Right. I agree, if I responded that way to my supervisor I'd likely be fired too. But that is not how Sandra Bland responded when BE politely asked her "you mind putting out your cigarette please?"
She did not tell him that she was going to call an attorney. She did not say anything about her rights.
She asked him one question which was:
"Why do I have to put out my cigarette since I'm in my own car?"
Using your same example ...if my supervisor politely asked me to do something and I asked him a question regarding as to why do I need to do x, y or z - I would be in shock if he then fired me. I'm absolutely sure he would simply explain to me why he is asking and why I should do it. I'm confident in saying that any supervisor I've ever had would have no problem with me asking them a question. I was always taught from a young age "there is no such thing as a dumb question."
I'm a very detailed person. So, when I post about the exchanges between BE and Sandra Bland I literally follow exactly what was said and when. When he asks her to please put out her cigarette that is not when she brings up contacting an attorney. The ONLY thing she says after he asks her to put out her cigarette is the question as to why. She brings up contacting an attorney after BE orders her to exit her vehicle. When he tells her to get out of her car that is when she says something to the effect of "you can't do that. " But, again all of that was done AFTER he says "Well, you can get out of the car.."
** The above is my opinion only. Your may vary. I respect all opinions and views just the same. "
We may just have to say we have different perceptions here. Which is fine, it's not cut and dry like we're calculating the number of hours in a month.
I disagree that SB was just enquiring as to why she should put out her cigarette. From the moment where she is telling BE what his job is, she's itching for a fight. Had he come back with "it's the law", "it's polite", "smoke gives me asthma"... ANYTHING, IMO, SB's response would have been " Well I don't have to." To me, she sounds like the worst kind of teenager, pushing limits. "You can't make me." Not the way to deal with people.
Law enforcement officers are supposed to be trained to deal with this. BE somehow managed to not follow that training. They both were acting badly.
At its core, it's an asymmetrical interaction. BE can arrest SB. SB can't arrest BE. All throughout though, SB seems to behave as if this is no different than someone cutting her off in line at the market. If you're smart, you go into that kind of situation much differently.
You don't have the right to call a lawyer in the middle of a traffic stop. Hello, your attention is needed with the situation at hand. So what should someone read into this if not, "I don't need to listen to you, my lawyer will back me up."
Bottom line, I don't admire SB. I don't see her as some kind of civil rights activist. Do I think she deserves to be dead? Of couse not. She didn't deserve to run into a sour tempered cop either. Things should have been done differently on both sides.
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