I don't have to google anything to know that people that kill themselves are not victims. jmo idk
But every time a suicide occurs, some little self-assured voice is going to attack the victim. The same victim who felt inadequate enough to end his or her own life. The same victim who found solace in death. The same victim who assumed the world would be better off without them. This smug character will go out of his way to insult a suicide victim, calling them "selfish," and "attention-seeking," asserting that "everyone faces obstacles, they should have sucked it up like the rest of us." I've seen it happen countless times.
I'm tired of the victim blaming that makes light of one of the most tragic and upsetting scenarios imaginable. This attitude is shameful and does absolutely nothing to prevent suicides in the future; it merely diminishes mental illness and disrespects the deceased.
If you had googled it you might have learned how victims of suicide are referred to as victims by law enforcement, mental health professionals, the clergy, the media, family members, suicide survivors... it's a universal term.
Stop Calling Suicide Victims 'Selfish'
If you're life has not been touched by suicide consider yourself fortunate.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/madeline-ruoff-/stop-calling-suicide-vict_b_5045441.html
If you had googled it you might have learned how victims of suicide are referred to as victims by law enforcement, mental health professionals, the clergy, the media, family members, suicide survivors... it's a universal term.
Stop Calling Suicide Victims 'Selfish'
If you're life has not been touched by suicide consider yourself fortunate.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/madeline-ruoff-/stop-calling-suicide-vict_b_5045441.html
I don't see that as being the question. People can do what they want if that is how their heart calls them. I know people who have left very lucrative, stable jobs to do things that they find joy in.So, wait. We're now arguing about and questioning her decision to move to Texas? Really?
One should remember this isn't the first suicide that's occurred in Waller County jail. In 2012, they were cited for failure to properly supervise inmates after another suicide. This year, they were again cited for the same offense, as well as failure to provide proof their staff had undergone a 2 hour mental health training session.There's also the hope it will draw attention to the deficiencies that led to her death and changes will be made, preventing the same thing from happening to someone else.
And if they have to pay for their mistakes maybe they'll be more careful next time.
I see it's a huff link & lol then click to see it's written by a HS senior and on top of that it's a blog. so again I say no thanks. jmo
Respectfully added Bold. So she was supposed to have started YESTERDAY, Aug 3rd.... not the Monday she committed suicide as some have alluded to.I know her family talked a lot about the "dream job". What was described by Prairie View A&M sounds different:
Prairie View spokeswoman Candace Johnson confirmed that Bland was supposed to begin working as a summer program associate for the university cooperative extension Aug. 3. It was a temporary position scheduled to last through Aug. 31, Johnson said.
http://my.chicagotribune.com/#section/-1/article/p2p-84010990/
Maybe she felt it would lead to something full time and permanent. But to leave for TX from IL for a one month temp position??? [emoji15]
I can't help but think Sandra's life was slipping, and she wasn't being honest with folks how badly. The move to TX seems as much an attempt to return to a place she associated with happier times as much as anything.
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Then I'll say it:
It's disgusting when someone gets a smug attitude about a suicide victim, as if he or she can judge what someone's experience was and what kind of pain that person was in at the moment he or she chose to end his or her own life. It's shameful, disrespectful, and shows a real ignorance of grief, mental illness and suicide. JMO.
Suicide victims are referred to as suicide victims for a reason.
LOL I've been called way worse, it bounces of the top of my head.
That's fine that some need to think that that people that kill themselves are victims but I'm not there, sorry.
No, no we don't.And we do know for a fact that she had a large amount of pot in her body.
When the Waller County District Attorneys office released parts of the toxicology report last week, they speculated that Ms. Bland might have consumed the drug just before she was arrested, to avoid a drug possession charge. They also raised the possibility that she smoked or ingested marijuana in jail, though they have found no evidence of that.
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/07/29/us/sandra-bland-toxicology-report.html
Ms. Bland had 18 micrograms per liter of T.H.C., the main psychoactive ingredient in marijuana, in her blood, according to a post-mortem report issued Monday. In a living person, 18 micrograms per liter of T.H.C. is considered elevated, but she is not alive, said Dr. Nikolas P. Lemos, the chief forensic toxicologist at the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner in San Francisco.
Ms. Bland had 18 micrograms per liter of T.H.C., the main psychoactive ingredient in marijuana, in her blood, according to a post-mortem report issued Monday. In a living person, 18 micrograms per liter of T.H.C. is considered elevated, but she is not alive, said Dr. Nikolas P. Lemos, the chief forensic toxicologist at the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner in San Francisco.
The concentration of T.H.C. in the blood of a deceased person can be much higher than levels in a living person, Dr. Lemos said. T.H.C. is drawn to fat, and because women usually have more body fat than men, he explained, If youre a woman with all that T.H.C. parked in your fatty tissue, after death it leaks out and contaminates the adjacent blood, so it artificially elevates the measured concentrations in blood.
After death, concentrations of T.H.C. in blood can go down, they may stay the same, or they can go up, said Bruce A. Goldberger, a professor of toxicology at the College of Medicine at the University of Florida in Gainesville.
Studies have shown that T.H.C. redistributes in a dead body, making it nearly impossible to accurately gauge the concentration of T.H.C. in Ms. Blands blood at the time of her death. We will never know the exact number, said Dr. Lemos, a clinical professor of laboratory medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Dr. Goldberger agreed.
No need to be sorry. I just hope you can eventually figure it out on your own rather than having to deal with it in your own life.
Does anyone have a link that shows she was on prescription medication for epilepsy.
Pretty sure she used pot. After death, THC and metabolites would be released from her tissues. You can have THC in your body fat and not be high. You're high only when it gets into your brainWhere did the pot come from if it wasn't in her body at the time of death?
And we do know for a fact that she had a large amount of pot in her body.
When the Waller County District Attorneys office released parts of the toxicology report last week, they speculated that Ms. Bland might have consumed the drug just before she was arrested, to avoid a drug possession charge. They also raised the possibility that she smoked or ingested marijuana in jail, though they have found no evidence of that.
http://www.nytimes.com/2015/07/29/us/sandra-bland-toxicology-report.html
Ms. Bland had 18 micrograms per liter of T.H.C., the main psychoactive ingredient in marijuana, in her blood, according to a post-mortem report issued Monday. In a living person, 18 micrograms per liter of T.H.C. is considered elevated, but she is not alive, said Dr. Nikolas P. Lemos, the chief forensic toxicologist at the Office of the Chief Medical Examiner in San Francisco.
No one is saying it isn't there. What experts are saying is there is no way, based on toxicological reports, to ever know how much she ingested or when. The most anyone can say is that her post-mortem blood results showed 18 micrograms per liter. She may have ingested a large amount of marijuana but we'll never know. In the same vein, it's also quite possible she ingested a very small amount and the toxicological results are elevated simply because of the way THC breaks down in a dead body.Where did the pot come from if it wasn't in her body at the time of death?
She's a victim of suicide/suicide victim. I'm not sure what's not to understand. Google "suicide victim" if you need help.
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