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Does this suggest the family couldn’t identify her themselves?
It does read a bit as though dental records or a DNA test were being waited on, doesn't it.

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Does this suggest the family couldn’t identify her themselves?
Depends how successful his band was seen as being in the local area imo. Lots of schools have aspirational display boards or similar showing what former students are up to, and if he was a bit of a local celebrity there could well have been something up about him that she was familiar with.
Hard to gauge when you're not local and twice their agebut from how people are talking I get the impression they were on the cusp of significant success (their split warranted an item in NME). I think they're quite good, if a bit Duranny - judge for yourself:
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They'd only played their first headline gig (in a local pub) a month or so back & didn't have many followers. The NME wouldn't have picked up on them without this story.
I wouldn't be surprised if other girls come forward now he's been arrested and other charges are laid against him. Rarely is this sort of behaviour out of the blue. Wouldn't surprise me if there were incidents leading up to it.
I'm glad someone else think so. That was my first impression having seen CA's instagram but I thought perhaps I was only perceiving it that way because I knew what he had allegedly done. I also didn't want to offend anyone who, like myself, are on the more introverted or neurotypical side, (or indeed, self conscious) and may find pictures/events awkward and not smile. But, I also have experience with a narcissist and I got the impression from CA's instagram that he was very image conscious. He's not smiling in any of the pictures or appearing to enjoy the company of anyone, and his pictures seem to be carefully selected e.g. uploading the ones that show him in an attractive way? My narcissist did not allow me to upload any pictures or mention him unless it presented him in a way that he was happy with. He also avoided pictures if he could. He hid from pictures at social events in case someone uploaded a picture he was not satisfied with. JMO.People have talked a lot in this thread about their surprise at how normal/good looking CA is. I've been surprised that no one has commented on his eyes. In every single photo I've seen (and I admit it's only a handful), he looks expressionless and his eyes look dead - for want of a better word. This includes photos from before. There's one which particularly struck me: of him and his bandmates, a normal group gathering together at the pub type photo. The others are all happy smiling, clearly on a night out. He's totally expressionless.
Wow I remember that story. I find it fishy. I also think the reporters know and can’t speak about it.
Bodes badly. Usually means burned or very traumatised.
Does this suggest the family couldn’t identify her themselves?
She was murdered on the Saturday and found on Tuesday/Wednesday? in that time there would be significant decomposing of the body so identifying by dental records or something would be pretty normal a few days after death I would imagine
I’m not sure about police code. From a pathology point of view, remains are not recognisably intact in the sense she was very badly burned, and placed in a bag, and placed underwater outside for a number of days which is a great way to disfigure any creature.When Sarah Everard was found it was announced as “human remains” being found, in this case it was a “body has been found” which would suggest that the body was intact and not burned or anything like that?
Yes. I agree and said that pages back.
I wonder if he was wanted for something else. Any unsolved sex crimes in the area? With a band he would have been moving around a fair bit.
Not so sure I agree given the current temperatures, but there may be good reasons why visual identification by a family member hasn't been appropriate, e.g. facial trauma, animal interference, or a combination of things. It wouldn't have to be anything lurid.
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When Libby Squire was murdered she was dumped in the icy waters of the Humber river and at that time of year the waters would have been brutally cold, yet when she was found it took a significant while to identify her (days/weeks) due to decomposing, even in icy cold waters of the estuary in mid winter
I have no science background at all but just remember Libby’s case as DNA/dental tests needing to be done to identify her
It varies widely - this case in particular is very under reported compared to usual so I do wonder why. Others have had insane coverage like Grace Millane and Sarah Everard.I’ve seen comments that there isn’t much reporting on trials in the UK compared to the US …. should we not expect to hear anything further on this for a while?
Where I live, their is a man who posts on FB about male violence to women. His sister was murdered by her husband of 18 months. On just about every post he makes there is some man who chimes in with 'What about women's violence to men?'.It varies widely - this case in particular is very under reported compared to usual so I do wonder why. Others have had insane coverage like Grace Millane and Sarah Everard.
there is an inquest very soon and I think that will provoke interest. At present there isn’t much to say as police been very quiet too.
To whoever asked yes water immersion is highly destructive to decomposition whether cold or not! Meanwhile in cold, especially dry or “frozen” air; decomposition can be very slow. On the extreme end of those conditions, you have the mummies of the Inca.
Yeah I think the issue of inter-gender violence is heavily weighted against women, although men are more likely to be victims of murder (but mostly from other males), so I don’t really know why that poster’s comment is necessary. There was actually so much coverage about two women who murdered husbands recently - the one who had a defence upheld about his manipulative coercion and another one who had had multiple husbands and tried to say he had earned it but was generally a wrong’un.Where I live, their is a man who posts on FB about male violence to women. His sister was murdered by her husband of 18 months. On just about every post he makes there is some man who chimes in with 'What about women's violence to men?'.