He's admitted he was controlling and that she could be too. I think she's exaggerating some areas to make him look worse and herself look like if she did play apart it was a lesser part than him. She contradicts herself, off the top of my head here's a few. Yes we've discussed them already and why she might be contradicting herself but she still IS contradicting herself and that leads to thinking there's lies or exaggeration involved
She says he has control of all her money and bank card- she says she used her bank card to buy




She says she's too scared to argue with him so they dont argue- he says they do argue and a neighbour heard them argue.
She says he doesn't allow her out without him - we see texts of her texting him wheres she's been
She says he doesn't allow her to smoke- she smokes