e-sherlockholmes
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To play devil's advocate (though I don't hold this view), if the male suspect did the murder and dismemberment all by himself, but is otherwise not a complete psychopath, he could very well have developed some form of PTSD. Sometimes, people go to 'dismember' people out of a sense of practicality, but have PTSD afterwards. Although, needless to say that anyone capable of such is already a little "different" than most who wouldn't have gone there. And if the female suspect is truly innocent, then its possible she is as poised and composed as she is. After all, an innocent person has no knowledge of the crime and may not be phased by the gruesomeness of the crime.Just using your post to jump off. I know that NM had confessed to Becky's murder at this point, and was probably horrified at what he had done (giving him the benefit of the doubt here), but I though it was telling that he was the one who appeared to be distraught, was crying and did seem to be upset by what had happened, in his interviews.
Whereas SH is very calm in hers, right from the start. I know she didn't like Becky, but I can get upset and tearful when hearing sad news about people dying, I've cried when talking to a friend whose son I had never met committed suicide, so I do find SH to be rather calm and collected when she has just discovered that her long-term partner's step-sister is dead.... that a teenager she had known for around 6 years has been dismembered.
Of course people are right to point out that she was only 14 when they met, legally still a child - but what type of man in his twenties is interested in a girl so young? For a start, a very immature one! Girls are usually more mature for their age, and if he was particularly immature (which I don't think is impossible to rule out) then the gap in maturity levels could be a lot less than it was in actual years. So, I don't think that we should automatically assume that SH was moulded by NM.
I think her composure and measured answers are what makes me find it hard to accept the submissive, controlled role in the relationship. However, like I've said before, we are only given snippets of evidence to make judgements from, so its all supposition and opinion and nothing else.
That being said, its also just as likely the female suspect took part in the crime, and is the ideal psychopath with total lack of remorse and empathy for the victim, who's able to stay composed and fake emotions they have done all throughout their lives. Maybe the female suspect has a high degree of psychopathy than the male suspect, even as both are equally as complicit in taking part, hence the different reactions. The question is which theory you believe.
As for their relationship, yes that's true. But its also a dynamic relationship. Its not a static event where the power struggles stay the same throughout all their years together. She might have been younger back then, but she grew up and power struggles can change in the relationship and the dominant/submissive on the onset can change roles. There is also the public side and private side to every relationship. You always hear friends and family say they "couldn't believe so and so is such a monster". Basically people don't really know other people that well and that is generally true of all relationships. Do you ever really know someone? Its often very superficial when you think about it. Everybody has secrets. Everybody has a private life. The truth is often different to what one can observe on the outside. I find family/friend testimonies helpful, but I don't rely on them.