IMO we don’t know enough about their lives to say if one had more “protection” growing up. However, there might be some cultural differences, based on the communities they are from. Cache County, Utah seems like a pretty nurturing place.I don’t disagree with you. But I also see a difference in the resilience of these two women. Seems both grew up with some trauma, but just one of them had some protection against it. That’s not a defense of BB and the way she parented.