Why apologize if you are going to say such things anyway? What's the point and why should the apology then mean something?
As I understand it, it's OK to discuss alternative theories related to crimes or reports of crimes.
I want to state that I definitely believe that Elizabeth Smart was a child who was hurt by whatever happened to her. She was neither the mastermind nor the puppet. She was definitely put into difficult circumstances.
Now that Elizabeth is an adult, she has put herself back in the spotlight with the People Magazine article. As I understand it, she IS currently a public figure by doing so voluntarily. The way I learned the law is that a person who is a public figure by their own doing, as she is now, can be discussed with respect.
What has been said here on WS and across the country by various very intelligent people is that
there are some doubts that Elizabeth Smart's kidnapping occurred in the way the family told it. And retold it while she was missing. And changed it-
while she was missing. And went on LKL and talked about " what a blessing" her being missing was " to the family"
at the time she was still missing. Her uncle said some extremely bizarre things which I can look up if I can find them. ( I am not too good at that sort of thing, but my friend can quote everything he said and remembers everything he did). He finally was " excused" from some of the mega- family TV interviews everywhere because Uncle Tom ran his mouth and said some things which didn't go along with what the family as a whole were saying. Some people believe that Uncle Tom had some very strong reasons of his very own for wanting Richard Ricci locked up and quieted.
Mary Katherine got a new puppy, Elizabeth's bedroom got a makeover while she was gone, I believe, and one of the first things Elizabeth's mom said was how much she had grown while she was missing and that they were going shopping for all new clothes. How many plump kidnapping victims do we ever see? I believe she was fed well while she was gone, but not necessarily by Mitchell and Barzee. Then, Uncle Tom whipped out his camera and poor Elizabeth had to play the harp for them. Her unhappiness is great in the coming home gala photos. The family used her missing status and they used her homecoming, in my opinion, and that's wrong, again in my opinion.
Whether you and others think it's right or wrong, there
are people who believe that Elizabeth's disappearance had an entirely different course than what was told to the public. I don't think they are the type of people who are conspiracy theorists or who see aliens, but who are simply free-thinking people who question not the Stockholm Syndrome phenomenon,
but the actions and words of the adult members of the Smart family while Elizabeth was missing and afterwards. Who question how a sketch said to be Richard Ricci and which ultimately led to his death in jail morphed into Mitchell.
Who question how the abductor got into the girl's bedroom based upon the house's layout. Who question how Elizabeth could go to the bathroom right by her parents door with the polite kidnapper in the golf hat right there in the room with her little sister and not run into her parent's arms for safety, or to protect little Mary Katherine. Who question many aspects of the kidnapping and the extensive route the trio took, according to the Smart family, with two of them being severely mentally ill and one being a young girl.
They ended up in Temple Square but they went many places and some of the photos have been published, as you know.
I was asked to state what my friend believes, but I don't know all of the fine points. She has very well thought out ideas of what happened which all makes total sense and the entire theory explains the almost unbelievable statements made by Elizabeth's relatives when she was missing.
In the opinion of everyone I have ever discussed this case with, now and in the past, everyone believes that Elizabeth and Mary Katherine were harmed emotionally.
A child is not culpable for the actions of the adults around them.
The strangest thing for me were the family's statements that Elizabeth didn't need therapy after she returned home, then told us in rather explicit detail what they believe was done to her sexually, although Elizabeth didn't talk about it, they said. How long was she home before Tom was photographing her- less than 24 hours. How long was it before Ed did some things which
could be viewed as capitalizing upon her situation and the case being in the limelight once she returned? I believe she was home less than 2 weeks before she was in the White House with the cameras flashing once again. That's no crime, but it certainly is off kilter.
The entire case is way out there, largely because of the conflicting statements and unusual actions by the huge group of adult family members while Elizabeth was missing, and to some degree, by her father after she was home.
I can say that I am sorry that you don't like or appreciate the discussion when it varies from what you believe and not apologize for having my own unanswered questions about the time that Elizabeth Smart was missing. I always have questioned many things the parents and relatives blurted out here and there. They sometimes gave the impression that they knew quite a bit more than they said. Also, it bothered me that Mary Katherine was not shielded from the public by the family. The alledged kidnapper was in the room with her, too. She alledgedly saw him well enough to help create an artist sketch, and name 2 men. But there she was, right beside Elizabeth. The only other family I know of who failed to protect another child who was smack dab in the middle of a crime scene were the Ramseys, with their survivng 9 year old son, Burke. Some of us don't think they were telling the whole story, either. That doesn't make us monsters.