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But you can't always hide it from your family. Both of my daughters were on our family plan for phones until they were 30. It was a nice thing for me to do, right? But I also would have had access to their records immediately if they went missing.
They both still use a credit card linked to my account for gas (I don't pay the bill, but we have joint accounts at the bank). That means I'd have some idea about main credit card activity, even now. Only one daughter shares account with her husband (that's really common these days).
So, people can do what they want, but they can also decide to leave a trail for others to follow. Almost no one understands "the risk" of bumping up against a crazy psychopath. That can happen to anyone, no matter how cautious.
Becoming the target of someone like AA is a lot like getting hit by a car jumping a curb, or even lightening. People try to mind their safety, and then they make a mistake, or something out of their control happens to set them up.
The responsibility for murder is on the murderer. Many men struggle with anger, and 99 percent of them manage to not kill people because things aren't going their way.
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