OT here- My fiance was talking to a very pretty educated coworker who told him she is 30 wants a man and wants to be settled down but can't find anyone and she was upset after a man she dated ghosted on her she said they all do- well my fiance schooled her - he told her what? you are a woman- you have the power you can have whatever man YOU want and if some man does not return texts forget him and move on!!! Worry about you what you like what you want focus on you build your confidence and men will swarm- never settle and never forget you hold all the cards and have all the power!!! I was saddened to learn that women feel this way about themselves- he said many at his job do.