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I agree, I dont think he planned this at all. Crime of passion IMO.
Let me speak on something else in our society. We have come a long way in this country regarding womens rights and equality, which is awesome. But there is this wife hating tone in this nation that I've seen creep up a lot lately. In TV shows, movies, radio, music etc. I know a lot of it is tongue in cheek and veiled jokes, but this behavior is rubbing off on our sons and effecting our daughters.
I see on TV how married life is portrayed as a life killer. Men complaining about their wives and how being married is so horrible and how they envy the single guys. It's as if being married is the worst thing in the world and the wives are the bane of their husbands existance. They try to get away from the wife, don't want to hang out with the wife, fight with the wife. I know any marriage isnt perfect, but I know that my husband is my best friend and his male friends tease him about it.
They say he is whooped or under my thumb. They can't understand why or how my husband actually likes being around me! I'm not some nagging wife that my husband cant wait to leave. I just don't get it. What do people think marriage is? Some freakin fairy tale???
They have a baby and get mad and jealous. They want the wife to handle most of the child care, but then get mad that the baby gets most of the attention!!
I think this thinking has cause a lot of controlling freaks to want to cheat, divorce or even kill their wives. They want out. They want a servant and not a wife, not a partner.
This post deserves a repeat, in case some missed it. Our boys and young men are being conditioned to be self-indulgent, irresponsible husbands and fathers. An honorable husband and father is not defined as just paying the bills or worse, child support, but this is all it takes to be an honorable man in the eyes of the media and a large portion of our society!
My greatest respect goes to those parents who take an active attitude in raising boys and girls to learn to work together, take care of eachother, and grow up to be responsible, caring, and committed husbands and wives!