After listening to two therapists on LegalBytes today discuss AH's possible mental health disorders, it became clear to me that she is in the Cluster B personality group. One of the therapists has been treated for BPD which added a different level to her understanding of AH's behavior. She recognized statements AH made as being some she herself made in her past, ie., don't walk away from me or don't leave when we are fighting. In that regard, it reflects AH's fear of abandonment.
It was mentioned that many therapists will not accept patients with BPD bc of their complex thinking. One ex. given was a patient fumed for a week over something they thought the therapist had said although the therapist never said that thing. After six months of once a week therapy appts., the patient still believed the therapist had indeed said that thing.
The reason is bc our brains can rewrite memories based upon our feelings (emotions) arising at the time of an event. Our brains can reshape the event thereby, convincing the patient that their memory is the way the event occurred. If this is true of AH's brain manifesting her truth, then she cannot help it for it cannot be cured. That is why therapists will deny caring for a patient with BPD. Then, again, if AH is misleading on purpose, it is a lie that she is attempting to convince her audience to be true when it is not.
My personal PTSD is from the side of histrionic personality disorder that evades the fighting and yelling by keeping the emotions tucked away safely inside without voicing or expressing those emotions. My x never hit me but his words and actions were killing me slowly when a bullet would have been quicker. Plain as day, I can hear AH telling Johnny to "grow up, Johnny. You're such a baby". It is that sort of vocal treatment that the x dished to me.
AH brought this BPD into the relationship. It was not a disorder that developed as a result of JDs words or actions.
Cluster B is called the dramatic, emotional, and erratic cluster. It includes:
- Borderline Personality Disorder.
- Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
- Histrionic Personality Disorder.
- Antisocial Personality Disorder.
Disorders in this cluster share problems with
impulse control and
emotional regulation.
DSM-5: The Ten Personality Disorders: Cluster B