I've read through the fetLife messages that were recently unsealed in which BB and JM were trying to convince someone to come to their house. In many of these messages, BB and JM are very focused on conveying that they want him to rush into the bedroom and quickly attack and get on top of CB (since that's the only way their scenario would work - wouldn't work if the person came into the room and said "Okay I'm here to act out the fantasy") . Here are a few verbatim examples from different conversations of BB/JM being very specific in detailing exactly what they wanted and that were communicated to multiple individuals:
"I love the idea of you coming to my house and finding me in my room/bed and immediately pinning me down and putting the restraints on. Not even letting me react. Gag my mouth or put tape on me. Put your weight on me pinning me down. "
"So I've said before I have a fantasy with my Dom coming to my house. But, I'll be still in bed, in my pajamas (hoping you will cut them off). I want you go straight to the point, where you put your weight on me, pin me down, put cuffs on my wrists and ankles as well, tape over my mouth, or gag. Also, that would be even better if you act fast, otherwise I can resist, so don't make me try to resist, just act."
"I think the first meeting I would prefer to be at my place. I'm more comfortable there. I'm interested in having someone come over where I leave the door open for them and they find me in my room. Pin me down. Force me into restraints. Gag/blindfold me and make me surrender."
"Sounds like we are getting closer to what I am looking for. But I want you to try again. If you find me in bed what are the first things you will do to me?"
After reading these, it is even more obvious to me (IMO) that BB and JM were creating these messages. They all have the same theme and provide the same guidance to multiple individuals.