Found Deceased VA - Noah Tomlin, 2, Hampton, 24 June 2019 *ARREST*

[BlueBerry101]

Here is the list of the other abbreviations,"Websleuths Lingo," if you ever need to look one up.

Websleuths Lingo

Thank you so much for that.

 

[BlueBerry101]

DBM means Deleted By Me.
An older version of WS posting had the ability, within an hour, for the writer of the message to be able to delete it. There is no delete feature on this version of WS, so now we go into Edit and delete what we have written, but we have to write something in its place, so we write "DBM" or "Deleted" or "..." or something similar.
No regular member of WS can delete your post -- a Moderator can delete it if you request it since it may be past the timing of the "Edit" feature. A Mod can also delete any member's post if the Mod finds it necessary, but it will usually have an note indicating the Mod deletion.

Thank you for taking the time to explain.

 

[BlueBerry101]

bbm
Well, your feelings about this little boy, whom we never knew, are the same as many of ours here on this thread. We do feel like we know him now, and that's the way it goes with most of us. Some cases do hit some Sleuthers deeper and harder than others, but we all get very attached, especially to these little ones.
You're in it with us now, BlueBerry101, and there's plenty of room on this bus for everyone!

Thank you for that. Seems like I'm saying thank you to alot of ppl today. This has definitely made me feel welcome here.

 

[BlueBerry101]

bbm
Well, your feelings about this little boy, whom we never knew, are the same as many of ours here on this thread. We do feel like we know him now, and that's the way it goes with most of us. Some cases do hit some Sleuthers deeper and harder than others, but we all get very attached, especially to these little ones.
You're in it with us now, BlueBerry101, and there's plenty of room on this bus for everyone!

Also have to add... Although it's a sad bus to ride, at least it's full of good ppl.

 

[mickey2942]

What plausible defense could there be here for the perpetrator?

1. Diminished capacity? She has a driver's license...that negates that defense.
2. Temporary insanity?

 

[helpfulcharlie]

What plausible defense could there be here for the perpetrator?

1. Diminished capacity? She has a driver's license...that negates that defense.
2. Temporary insanity?

Does she really? I'm legitimately, honestly surprised she was able to accomplish that.

 

[Momof4RN]

What plausible defense could there be here for the perpetrator?

1. Diminished capacity? She has a driver's license...that negates that defense.
2. Temporary insanity?

Mental illness

 

[BlueBerry101]

No! The poster deleted his/her post, not one of yours. When the new software was installed the ability to delete a post was no longer an option. So if someone writes a post and then regrets it they can either contact a mod to delete it for them or simply edit the post to erase what they wrote. Most people do that and in order to not cause confusion they just type DBM. Also, sometimes when the server is acting up we end up with two identical posts, so same remedy for that.

Don't worry BlueBerry, we all run into this and it doesn't reflect on you. After a while you'll find if someone strongly disagrees with something you post they'll say so in a reply. Members can't delete posts written by other members, all they can do is report it and let a mod handle it. And if a mod deletes a post for some reason (off topic, no link if stating something as fact, throwing shade on a victim for example) they'll notify you - most of the time.

And as far as feeling frustrated while waiting for more details on Noah's COD (cause of death), get used to it . Some cases go on for months, even years before information is released or charges are brought. The worst ones for me are the cases where it's obvious who did what but LE is still working on gathering enough evidence. Then there are the little ones who still are missing, like Myra Lewis or Delano Wilson.

Your posts have been well written and a pleasure to read so please know you're fitting into the forum just fine!

Thank you so much for that. It means alot to me knowing that I'm fitting in here and that y'all have enjoyed reading my post's. I have worried that it will take along time for Noah's case to reach an end. I hope it doesn't, but ik there is that chance. Little ones still missing.... I'm sure there are many.. It's just so sad and frustrating. And so unfair to the missing. If something I post can maybe flip a switch in the mind of someone who is working closely in any missing persons case, then I will have accomplished what I came here for.

 

[RememberingRyan]

1. Diminished capacity? She has a driver's license...that negates that defense.

Having the capacity to obtain a license to operate a motor vehicle has zero bearing on whether or not someone experiences, or temporarily experienced, diminished mental capacity.

 

[BradB]

If we created laws on who should or shouldn't have kids then we would open up a paradox box that would be too big to handle.

Human beings are too complex and change all the time. We evolve too quick.

 

[borndem]

Also have to add... Although it's a sad bus to ride, at least it's full of good ppl.

We do, from time to time, get a nice sip of "apple juice" (that's what I call it!) -- when a child or adult is found, healthy and in good shape, and not abused or kidnapped, etc. -- most likely lost or taking time away if it's an adult, so it's not always bad news here at WS, but there is a lot of vinegar as well. We do have each other, as you say, and sometimes a WS'er has actually helped in a case, etc.

 

[MummyRatcliffe]

Where are the children's rights? I'm so sick of hearing about a drug-addicted, abusive woman's reproductive rights when they have child after child while on drugs, and then go on to abuse or kill them. Their reproductive rights end the moment they kill their own child. What about that child's right to exist?

If a woman really loves their child, they won't do drugs while the child is in utero and they won't abuse and kill them after their born! And if a man is the one abusing and killing infants (even step-children), he needs to be sterilized, too!

The only thing that will stop this is when we start caring more about the rights of victims than the rights of the perpetrators. We are allowing the murder of our nation's children by being so concerned about a woman and her right to reproduce. What the hell? Reproduce for what? More government handouts? It's obvious she's not doing it because she loves and wants children. It's more like she and the father can't bother using birth control, even a condom. A lot of these drug-addict mothers sell themselves for sex to get their drugs. That's where a lot of these poor babies come from. If you're an addict and have 10 children, YOU DON'T CARE WHAT HAPPENS TO THEM. For a drug addict, children are an unwanted result of indiscriminate sex.

I know this post isn't PC, and I don't give a damn. PC is what has gotten us into this mess to begin with.

Have you ever tried to educate a child born on crack? Have you had your heart broken while they drool and have trouble learning the most basic concepts, knowing they will never be able to have an independent life? Have you watched newborns scream and cry in withdrawal at a hospital, knowing their life started as a living hell?

What about that woman who abandoned EIGHT crack-addicted babies at different times in the Chicago area? EIGHT children left for the state to care for, EIGHT precious lives that were affected by a mother who didn't want them and only had them as a consequence of selling herself for drugs. A judge tried to order her on birth control. The ACLU stepped in and said it was against her reproductive rights. What the hell? HER reproductive rights?!! She has none! She abandoned eight babies over a span of time! What is wrong with us as a society that we care more about her ability to make eight MORE crack babies than the right of any baby to be drug-free and non-handicapped by an uncaring womb and sperm donor?

Have you lived with the results of Shaken Baby Syndrome? Have you cared for a boy who was perfect at birth but by age two was blind, couldn't speak or swallow and confined to a wheelchair the rest of his life because of the abuse his mother and boyfriend did to him? He was nothing but a thing to torment, but he and his brother were returned to her again and again, until he was kicked down outside apartment stairs like a football. He spent two and half years in the hospital because his injuries were so bad. And his mother and boyfriend had been sexually abusing the older brother. Oh, let's not take away HER reproductive rights!

Protecting unwanted and abused children from being born to drug addicts and abusers is NOT eugenics! It is protecting those who cannot protect themselves. It is caring for those who cannot care for themselves.

If a woman or a man cannot or will not properly care for any child they have, then they forfeit the right to have any more children they cannot or will not care for. It's about time someone spoke up for the children and quit giving abusers and killers excuses to have more victims at their disposal.

WE have to be the voice for these children. And we have to stand up and say it is wrong for any man or woman to keep having children, only to abuse and kill them. No more excuses. No more murdered children. No more Noahs.[/QUOTE

Like x a million!! So well put and agree whole heartedly!

 

[LeslieKnope12]

Thinking of sweet Noah today

 

[MyBelle]

What plausible defense could there be here for the perpetrator?

1. Diminished capacity? She has a driver's license...that negates that defense.
2. Temporary insanity?

She may have medical issues we know nothing about. We also don't know if she had a boyfriend sleeping over the night Noah disappeared. She still hasn't been charged with murder and no one has been cleared by LE.

Mother of Noah Tomlin transferred to Hampton Roads Regional Jail

 

[MsFacetious]

She may have medical issues we know nothing about. We also don't know if she had a boyfriend sleeping over the night Noah disappeared. She still hasn't been charged with murder and no one has been cleared by LE.

Mother of Noah Tomlin transferred to Hampton Roads Regional Jail

She may have a medical issue known as pregnancy. They usually do.

 

[Knox]

Julia Tomlin due back in court on July 29.

 

[mickey2942]

She may have a medical issue known as pregnancy. They usually do.

Dianne Downs was pregnant during her trial for shooting her children.

 

[borndem]

She may need medical or psychological attention that a county jail would not be able to provide -- we probably won't hear a word about this if it is a medical-type situation. Maybe she is faking some type of med or psych ailment. And yes, maybe another baby -- she could still be in competition with her sister (isn't it her sister?) in this baby-birthing contest -- who knows?
Or it could be a bad case of "faking-itis." Wouldn't surprise me.

About Hampton Roads Regional --

Established in 1998, the Hampton Roads Regional Jail proudly serves the cities of Chesapeake, Hampton, Newport News, Norfolk and Portsmouth, Virginia by operating the facility in accordance with the collective best interests of the five participating jurisdictions. The facility is operated under the direction of the Hampton Roads Regional Jail Authority which is comprised of the sheriffs, city managers and city council members representing their perspective jurisdictions.


The primary function of the facility is to house both male and female inmates from the five participating jurisdictions including: pretrial, sentenced and inmates requiring special management.

https://hrrj.org/

 

[Jesse535]

She may need medical or psychological attention that a county jail would not be able to provide -- we probably won't hear a word about this if it is a medical-type situation. Maybe she is faking some type of med or psych ailment. And yes, maybe another baby -- she could still be in competition with her sister (isn't it her sister?) in this baby-birthing contest -- who knows?
Or it could be a bad case of "faking-itis." Wouldn't surprise me.

About Hampton Roads Regional --


https://hrrj.org/

I'm local, and have a family member who was in Hampton roads regional jail not long ago. She was transferred there due to a medication she was on that the county jail wasn't able to provide her. So it could be something simple like that.

 

[Momof4RN]

She may have medical issues we know nothing about. We also don't know if she had a boyfriend sleeping over the night Noah disappeared. She still hasn't been charged with murder and no one has been cleared by LE.

Mother of Noah Tomlin transferred to Hampton Roads Regional Jail

No one else has been named or even mentioned by LE either so the only person at this point who is waiting to be cleared would be JT. 7/29 will give us some indication if that will happen.