I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. I know that must have been painful to watch.
Please know that I in no way think someone should get a lesser jail sentence because they were molested, but I also understand that it is a defense attorney's JOB to argue that point to help their client. And I respect that.
We have to keep working to keep these issues in the public eye and to demand stricter sentences. It takes a long time to change things, but I think everyone on this site helps to do this.
I know you don't think that.
I'm not completely convinced that being sexually abused causes you to be an abuser yourself. There are plenty of sexually abused people who grow up to lead productive lives. I can see it more when it's a physically abused child growing up like that since it's a taught behavior.
I'll just never, ever understand what goes on in someone's brain when they look at a 2 year old and think "Man, I'd like a piece of that"
It's just inconceivable to me. I think there has to be more to it than that, why don't more woman do it? Why is it mostly men? I think it may have more to do with some inherited trait or screw lose in the brain.