BRAVO, Cheko1 !!! :clap:
Every passionate and frustrated/knowing word you wrote ... echoes hugely within me!
AGREED!!!
Polk ...
Thank you PolkSaladAnnie........:blowkiss:
BRAVO, Cheko1 !!! :clap:
Every passionate and frustrated/knowing word you wrote ... echoes hugely within me!
AGREED!!!
Polk ...
Cheko...............I'd love to see the media get back into the YFZ ranch and this time ask the hard questions..........
1. Why are you refusing to identify yourselves and your children?
2. If you really want your children back, why won't you cooperate with the authorities?
3. Marilyn.........you gave a tour of your home. Where are the children's toys?
4. Where are the children's fathers? Don't they care about the children? Why won't they talk to anyone?
I bet those of us here at WS could come up with some good questions!
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Yes Leila it would be mighty interesting.
I think they should be made to answer many of the questions. Guess we'll just have to wait until they go to trial. If they haven't headed for the hills & still in hiding that is!
Couldn't agree with you more!
They don't care about their children, children are just the means to assuring the parents a comfortable after life.
Cheko...............I'd love to see the media get back into the YFZ ranch and this time ask the hard questions..........
1. Why are you refusing to identify yourselves and your children?
2. If you really want your children back, why won't you cooperate with the authorities?
3. Marilyn.........you gave a tour of your home. Where are the children's toys?
4. Where are the children's fathers? Don't they care about the children? Why won't they talk to anyone?
I bet those of us here at WS could come up with some good questions!
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Yes Leila it would be mighty interesting.
I think they should be made to answer many of the questions. Guess we'll just have to wait until they go to trial. If they haven't headed for the hills & still in hiding that is!
I think MOST of the FLDS members US-Wide INCLUDING most if not all of the YFZ mothers who were there during the raid (maybe those of childbearing age?) and probably ALL of the men except 4 or 5 who may not have ANY children in custody or ANY children with an underage mother are GONE. They aren't going to run in public - but I betcha that they are every one in Mexico right now. They aren't gonna pull up a bus and load em up (like the kids) - they are gonna gather at some back road on the ranch in the dark of night and take off one car full at a time - nobody is really watching them all that closely now - they have removed the endangered children, there is no reason and NONE of them have been charged with a crime ...YET. They are free to go..and I think they DID and ARE. They would rather abandon their kids than stay and fight for them...true to their doctrine - that is not their role...the women will leave that to the "men" and their lawyers - while they start over in Mexico where they feel safe and insulated from the beasts and infidels that have corrupted their children and might also corrupt and ruin THEM. And they don't think they can survive outside the FLDS - they must have their husband and their "sister-wives" --- but not their children - there are more of those (children) where the 1st batch came from...fertility is obviously NOT an issue in the FLDS church - or maybe they only "keep the successful breeders"?
We must stop trying to apply our "worldly" logic to this group of people, because they don't operate or think like we do. You do realize there is a reason NONE of them have more than a 6th grade education (if it's even equivalent to that in OUR world). Then they might "think" or "feel" or show emotion and thinking and feeling on ones own, without the training and guidance of your father, husband and prophet is NOT permitted.
I think the FLDS is for all intents and purposes FINISHED and out of business in the USA - and I think it will be a long time before they return..if ever. Not for the kids, not for ANYTHING. They would rather give up their children than betray their church or defy their "Prophet" -and they have no intention of going to JAIL or PRISON or sitting in court and allowing a bunch of infidels and demons to sit in judgment of their lifestyle or their choices or WORST OF ALL, question them publicly. Warren Jeffs is already in jail and they don't intend to join him - no matter what the cost. And they do believe that is what will happen to them if they stay - they believe they cannot get justice in our courts - because Warren Jeffs didn't...at least in their eyes.
My Opinion
ok I read the article at the link above. I think I see where some of the confusion comes in. Before 2005 the law in Texas allowed its citizens to marry at age 14. Since 2005 the law has been changed to 16. So if a girl became pregnant at age 14 in 2005 she would be a 17 year old mother now. I wonder how the state can prosecute a person for doing something that was legal then and isn't now? Their best case is to find girls who are currently pregnant and under 16 and what I had read is that there are possibly 3 girls in that category. If so then that is less than the number of girls who get pregnant in Texas at the same age who are not FLDS.
The last figure I heard was that there are 5 girls between 16 and 19 who are pregnant.
I cannot find the original article but reading in the comments following THIS article
http://www.rapidcityjournal.com/articles/2008/04/19/news/top/doc48095d0a7405a514684976.txt the "locals" are saying the women and children went 1st and (by the 18th) and from the little blurb I read at the end of another article it said there was NO-ONE at the SD compound today (4-22) - not even the "head guy" who was the one the authorities and neighbors had contact with. According to the little blurb I read ALL the known FLDS compounds in the USA are being systematically emptied/evacuated. I DO remember in one of the YouTube videos the documentary film makes TOOK an ex-member down into Mexico to get some of her belongings that were with her daughter and THAT compound was like 15 miles from even a rough DIRT road in the middle of NOWHERE in Mexico - somewhere South of the AZ border.
They are RUNNING - men women and children...poof, gone..overnight. THIS is why the CPS in Texas HAD to remove the children and keep them under their strict supervision. These supposedly honest, hard working, very religious and upstanding people who have nothing to hide are afraid to face any scrutiny by US or State Authorities in ANY way. If they are so innocent - then WHY would ALL the members across the USA find it necessary to disappear in the night? There have been NO allegations about anyone at any other compound - if forced marriage and impregnating 14 year old girls and abusing children and infants wasn't common practice then WHY RUN?
They keep saying they have done nothing wrong and their life and parenting are exemplary and perfect and wholesome and moral and they just want to prove it and get their kids back. If that is the case ...where ARE THEY??? The kids, the women and now the men...ALL GONE - like they never existed. It is being reported that like 5 men remain at the YFZ Ranch to care for livestock and everyone else is GONE. Where are all those "weeping" mothers from YFZ today? 3 Men showed up for DNA - 3 MEN! That's all - and reports are that all the woman are not at YFZ either.
I said early on that if the heat didn't let up on these "perfect" loving parents and they got a chance to get away they would disappear and abandon their now "ruined by the infidels" children to the state of Texas. And so, it appears that they have. Like I said earlier, what MOTHER joyfully and willingly escorts her 14 year old daughter to a marriage bed with a man her daughter has never met and who is probably a MINIUMUM of 30 years her senior? And I say now, what MOTHER OR FATHER abandons their child/children to the state and LEAVES without a word? Wanna wager that they "Prophet" sent them to Mexico and they are even now preparing to start new families there, where the US cannot reach them or extradite them to face charges here without a fight.
Any parent who can hand off their child in marriage to a stranger or just send them to another compound to another mother and father - just hand them over to another family without question is IMO, perfectly prepared to abandon their now "ruined" children to the "beast" and go off to another place, another compound and begin again and never look back. And I think THAT is what they will do - those "mothers" are MORE concerned with obeying their "prophet" and their husband and remaining obedient and "sweet" and compliant than they are with their children. I still believe to these people children are considered like livestock or a possession - it's just a loss, like losing a herd or cattle to a storm or something - they just keep moving forward and never look back - those kids are just "things" to them and now they are more trouble than they are worth so they'll just cut their losses and start over elsewhere. When it comes to choosing between religion and it's tenets and a living CHILD they prefer to abandon the CHILD/CHILDREN before betraying (as they see it) their husband and their "Prophet".
Tell me again how these ADULTS are not brainwashed and this is not a cult? Only those who fear the TRUTH and the REALITY more than they fear their leaders would leave a CHILD behind - and THAT is the very definition of brainwashed. It's sad for the children BUT I cannot help but feel they will survive and even THRIVE and have been mercifully spared and escaped a living hell with the FLDS CULT. They say that the children are closest to God and I think He is watching over these kids in a very special way - and I HOPE thru these kids, He will see that MORE will be rescued.
My Opinion
Last I heard Admins were looking to create a private forum for this topic.
Why private? And how can people get in on it then? What will be the criteria to join it? I don't post a whole lot, but, this is of such interest to me. I have been studying Mormanism, FLDS, and Polygamy for years. I don't always post much cause often I would just be echoing other's comments but I would hate to see this locked off so I couldn't read it.
Why private? And how can people get in on it then? What will be the criteria to join it? I don't post a whole lot, but, this is of such interest to me. I have been studying Mormanism, FLDS, and Polygamy for years. I don't always post much cause often I would just be echoing other's comments but I would hate to see this locked off so I couldn't read it.
I meant a seperate forum. Sorry I had just woken up when I posted that, it would be public, but have its own seperate forum.
I am glad that you used the word "appear". I "appear" to condone.
I think that anytime you have a very small group that feel something very strongly and along comes one person who doesn't agree it can be hard to listen to what they are really saying.
There is an equal possibility that that one poster can not be 100% clear in each and every post. I can appreciate that about myself. Just yesterday I posted a long and rambling post about CPS and a very kind poster asked me to explain myself and sure enough I was thinking in my own little head about one small aspect of this case and my post came out very garbled. Her pointing that out enabled me to correct it. So in case I have been unclear in that same sense to you I will try to say it in a way that makes it a little more clear where I stand. I appreciate you giving me that opportunity MostlyLurking.
Here is my stand.
1) I wont use inflammatory inaccurate terms to whip up another's feelings. The facts can support themselves without that. (see rant below)
2) I do not suscribe to the belief that it is ok to hurt a "few" people and tread on their rights if we can accomplish a "greater" good for the many as determined by the state.
3) I think the power of the government should be carefully watched when it comes to their "reach" into the family home.
4) I do not believe it is the course of wisdom take over anothers life when we cannot offer them anything better than what they currently have.
5) I do believe that pedophiles should not only be removed from society but should in fact be executed if it is definite that they have offended. John Couey or Father James Porter are two that would be eligible in my mind.
6) I think this case will end up going to the Supreme Court. I don't know if it will be over the 1st amendment or the IV.
7) For what its worth, I think that most people are having a hard time separating out the underage aspect of this from the polygamy part.
aforementioned rant::crazy:
I have not and will not use inflammatory phrases like "pedophile" to describe each and every man in the compound. All of us who read and post on a crime forum know what a true pedophile is. It is a man (we will say man for the purpose of simplicity here) who has a sexual interest in children who have not developed sexually. It is a pathological twist in their mental make up. They are sexually excited by a prepubescent child . The FLDS men wait until a girl menstruates and then she is spiritually "married". This seems an awful practice to me personally living in the time period I do but it isn't true pedophilia according to the medical definition. What it is could be more accurately defined as adults engaging in illegal sexual activity with minors.
But that doesn't care the same punch to say that. Its more accurate, but not as titillating. And by the way, yes, I do think there are sexual predators among the FLDS. I think Warren Jeff's is one. He is exactly where he needs to be. Hope they find a way to keep him a long time. That aside, I cant condemn every man in this sect on the basis of that. Not anymore than I can condemn the entire Catholic church on the basis of the rampant pedophilia(meeting the ACCURATE definition) that has and still does occur in their ranks.
I wonder what's going on with the 6 women who did not go back to the compound but chose the shelter instead? I hope they are getting help and in time will be able to help the authorities understand everything that went on as far as the abuse etc. These 6 women may be the only ones who in time can be reunited with their children, maybe they don't view them as a commodity but children worth fighting for.
VB
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