You are so right on regarding CA.
IF George is guilty of the behavior alleged I have no sympathy for him.
As for CA she has always put me over the edge in disgust per her behavior and I have had the opinion that CA is the impetus for the dysfunction in the A family. None of her actions or behavior from the beginning of this ordeal to the present have made me think otherwise.
I have no sympathy for CA at all. I know first hand what a mother can inflict upon her child with demeaning, accusatory, guilt-inducing, overbearing, belittling, and unfair treatment while keeping an appearance of being a lady, compassionate, fun, a "great" mother.
Some people - like me - go into a shell and do everything possible to make sure mommy doesn't have to cry, get damaged for life without ever being able to overcome the conditioning they received as children.
Others - like KC - eventually explode. Yes, KC did what she is accused of doing, but CA is the root of the evil and I have absolutely NO doubt about that. Not even a shadow of a doubt.
I could go into a long story here, but anyone with a narcissistic mother already knows what that story is. You have to live with a narcissist to know what it's like. Nobody else can even come close to imagining the damage to the child's psyche.
As so many here keep saying..."there but for God go I". Should KC be punished for what she did? Yes. But so should CA.