Respectfully, it's the only choice you have if you want to survive. Otherwise why bother with therapy?
Equally respectfully, we don't know whether Jayme will develop PTSD or not.
The disorder develops in some people post- trauma, and not in others.
Some people respond well to EMDR and talk therapy/ cognitive therapy and some don't.
Others will find great and lasting relief from the most severe parts of their PTSD with an anxiolytic agent prescribed by a physician ( usually started by a Psychiatrist. I don't want to get specific to this case, but another M.D. could also prescribe a short term medication.)
And, there are some people who try exceptionally hard: They may do some or all of the following :
Confront the offender ( IF appropriate for the person).
Are active in weekly or more frequent talk therapy and group therapy for PTSD/ severe anxiety/ panic disorders.
Participate with a very experienced therapist in EMDR therapy specific to their memories of the trauma
For an adult, the risk to benefit ratio encourages them to enroll and then take experimental meds. in clinical trials for control of long term PTSD...
Get away from it all by taking a month long relaxing Mediterranean cruise and Italian vacation, move far away from the area of the trauma and person or persons involved.
Vow never to think or speak of the trauma again, and try very hard not to think of it at all,
Despite ALL this time, money, pain, effort and so forth, they and their treatment team or mental health care provider decide together that they cannot function as they formerly did without ongoing supervised medication support and scheduled appointments for talk therapy.
( I am not speculating that Jayme will fall into this category at all and I have no clinical experience with children/ teens in actual practice, just in school.)
Jayme may fall ANYWHERE on this spectrum of treatments and things which may help her greatly. It's her mind, it's her life.
I believe she will do exactly as every human does: THE
VERY BEST SHE CAN TO LIVE A HAPPY, CENTERED, FULL LIFE.
** This is my hope, my wish, my vision for her. To recover, to show the low life sociopath that she is a strong survivor, realizing that the path to recovery is NOT a straight road. It is sometimes ( frequently) a very winding and circular journey but she never has to be without excellent care and resources to help her. **
With this sentiment stated, knowing the depth of emotional pain which can either linger or reappear at times, I bid you all good night and hope all our nights are safe and restful and all our days are happy and productive.