SluethinAway
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And.. there it is!
Go Emily!!! You can do way better
And.. there it is!
He abandoned her, committed adultery, and emotionally tortured his immediate and extended family. Have no hesitation, Emily, walking away from the marriage.
Interesting that he went to church first. What a jerk.From the complaint you have posted, I want to pull out this piece:
So, in addition to screwing over his family (wife, kids, parents), he was also willing to screw over his friend(s).
What a loser.
Imo.
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Quite the bike rider - didn't know how to turn on e-bike.I am thinking of him walking through muck up to his hips, as he stated he did, when pulling out of the lake before his ebike ride. He got cold on the ebike ride and changed clothes - what did he do with muddy pants? They would be stinky by the time he got to his destination. Oh, the romance.
jmo
And think of the kids. Get them away ASAP.He abandoned her, committed adultery, and emotionally tortured his immediate and extended family. Have no hesitation, Emily, walking away from the marriage.
jmo
Quite the bike rider - didn't know how to turn on e-bike.
The criminal complaint charging Ryan Borgwardt with misdemeanor obstruction offers a detailed account of how the 45-year-old pulled off his disappearance, including how he struggled to emerge from the water, almost didn’t make it through customs on his way overseas and was living in the country of Georgia when he realized he had left too many clues behind.
Emily Borgwardt filed for "annulment/legal separation" Thursday from Ryan Borgwardt -- her husband who faked his own drowning so he could leave her and their children and meet a woman in Eastern Europe.
An April 28 hearing was scheduled.
<modsnip - no link> The church says you can't divorce if you are practicing Catholic. There may be a problem for her legally if she tries to annul. None of the reasons for a wisconsin marriage to be annulled apply Wisconsin Legislature: 767.313 here's the statute, 767.313. I'd eat my foot if the court grants it. But correction: It looks like she filed for legal separation, which is different.Interesting that the wife is filing for annulment after 20+ years of marriage. Jmo. Would that be important from a religious viewpoint? Or is separation/annulment just how it's listed, legally, in WI?
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Ryan Borgwardt's wife files for annulment after his return from Europe, obstruction charge
According to the petition filed in Dodge County, the marriage is "irretrievably broken." The document doesn't elaborate.fox11online.com
Is she Catholic? My understanding (can’t find the source now) is that the family are of Lutheran denomination. The vast majority of Christians support divorce in the case of adultry due to biblical teachings about it. Historically Catholics are more anti-divorce in general.<modsnip - no link> The church says you divorce if you are that Catholic. There may be a problem for her legally. None of the reasons for a wisconsin marriage to be annulled apply. I'd eat my foot if the court grants it. She probably can get away with a legal separation as far as the church is concerned, and then the court can deal with the child custody situation. Just my own opinion.
That's a good question. if she's Lutheran and it's not against her religion, I think legal separation is a waste of money, she should go straight to divorce. Otherwise she has to do the whole thing over again later. I had guessed Catholic due to the filing of an annulment. Although this article is saying she filed for legal separation. I didn't see the papers, i just was going off what people said she filed.Is she Catholic? My understanding (can’t find the source now) is that the family are of Lutheran denomination?
Maybe she needs time and space to process everything that has happened, talk with RB, etc before she is ready to commit to the divorce step. IDK how it works in the USA but here in Australia you have to be separated for a specific amount of time (unsure how long) before you can divorce.That's a good question. if she's Lutheran and it's not against her religion, I think legal separation is a waste of money, she should go straight to divorce. Otherwise she has to do the whole thing over again later. I had guessed Catholic due to the filing of an annulment
The basic guide from Wisconsin says quote "120 days waiting period" https://www.wicourts.gov/formdispla...&formType=Instructions&formatId=2&language=enMaybe she needs time and space to process everything that has happened, talk with RB, etc before she is ready to commit to the divorce step. IDK how it works in the USA but here in Australia you have to be separated for a specific amount of time (unsure how long) before you can divorce.
That’s also true for certain states in the United States. In South Carolina, you must be legally separated and living apart for at least a year before you can divorce (with certain exceptions — like if the filing party is a victim of domestic violence, for example). I don’t know what the laws are in Wisconsin, though.Maybe she needs time and space to process everything that has happened, talk with RB, etc before she is ready to commit to the divorce step. IDK how it works in the USA but here in Australia you have to be separated for a specific amount of time (unsure how long) before you can divorce.
They are Lutheran and Lutherans do not recognize theological annulments. A legal annulment does not seem to apply here, according to Wisconsin law. I’m not understanding why an annulment would be requested.Is she Catholic? My understanding (can’t find the source now) is that the family are of Lutheran denomination?
You cannot say the marriage never existed, there's no reason to declare it so. He wasn't a bigamist, they weren't underage, they were able to have sex, and there was no incapacity. Wisconsin Legislature: 767.313 source -- the law right there.I have been divorced twice in Wisconsin (ok, that's a WHOLE different story than this - I just don't pick well - noone faked their death to get away from me) It doesn't make me an expert, but annulments are rare, and there is no rule that you need to be separated before a divorce. Some people do the legal separation thing so that finances are secure while a lengthy divorce is gone through. I don't know why this would be a lengthy divorce though - seems neither one wants to stay married, since, you know - the whole fake your death thing to get out of it on his side, and she filed this legal separation thing today. The 120-day waiting period that someone else referred to above is for getting married AFTER a divorce - you can't get married to anyone for 120 days after the divorce is final. I think she wants to believe the marriage never existed. Savage. Love it!
this is what I found online
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