It seems to me that what
some people want (after the fact anyway) is for the Moab officers to have decided GP was lying. She told them she hit BL first so she was (reasonably IMO) initially presumed to be the aggressor. (The law in Utah called for AN aggressor, I believe. Not mutual aggressors so arresting both G&B as some have suggested was probably not an option. And they would have been released the next day regardless.) Whether GP did hit first still isn't known, IMO. We do know from other sources like Rose Davis that GP did slap BL when he angered her. So GP saying she slapped him that day when he made her mad isn't necessarily a false statement.
GP claimed to have just quit her job as a nutritionist and that wasn't true (although not terribly relevant. Still, it was not the truth but how would LE know?)
She said she had OCD, a diagnosis her family denies. But an adult child
could have diagnoses/medical problems her family might not know about. So we don't really know if that was the truth. It did, however, suggest a mental health basis for the conflict that occurred after weeks of traveling in a small van. Many things GP said to LE encouraged that view IMO.
Not too long ago we saw the emergence of a movement targeting sexual abuse and harassment that mandated "believe women." But apparently it's more nuanced than that. We are supposed to believe women when they say they were assaulted but not believe them when they say (or imply) they weren't. While people (
not just women) in abusive domestic relationships may deny abuse, I'm not sure how that known tendency to deny and to lie can form the basis for legal actions involving arrests. Not only are LE supposed to arrest the other person (usually a man but not always) if the woman alleges abuse/DV, giving no thought to the possibility the woman
might be lying, but they are also supposed to arrest the man if the woman alleges he has not been violent? In the latter case, LE apparently should assume the woman IS lying.
In Moab, GP asked LE not to separate her from BL saying "like we're a team, please. It's going to give me so much anxiety. Can we just have, like, a driving ticket?" Given that she'd already alleged that her mental state was precarious, I can certainly see why LE preferred not to lock her up as the aggressor. And separating her not just from BL but from her home, her van, could be imagined to make existing anxiety worse.
Further, in mid-Sept, before GP was found, GP's mother addressed reports of the Moab incident. Although she talked to GP during the incident as well as later that day, Nichole Schmidt said about the incident to the Daily Mail: 'It's irrelevant. Two people traveling together with each other 24 hours a day, it's not going to be perfect, it was an argument, and that's all I'm going to say about it.'
Six days after Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie had a physical altercation at Moonflower Community Cooperative, store worker Kylen Schulte, 24, and her wife Crystal Turner, 38, were found dead.
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So despite their seeming to think the incident was minor at the time, like some here GP's family seemed to later believe LE should have known what they didn't know-- that the relationship was unhealthy & BL could be violent. And if they didn't know, they still should have arrested him,
just in case. Further, asking GP more questions (the lethality assessment) would have somehow gotten to the truth, a truth her family didn't know or even suspect despite the years the couple lived together and the fact the couple spent 2+ weeks with them in NY before starting the van trip. Even Tara Petito said she saw no red flags and she shared she'd been in an abusive relationship before. GP's parents encouraged the trip, stating they were "proud of" GP for doing it rather than "settling" for a conventional job. So to help, they said they took on some of the costs of the trip. While I don't believe they shared detailed financial information about the second trip, for the first trip the couple took to California the year before Joe P rented GP a Nissan to travel. Since people in close contact with the couple for years thought it was a healthy relationship, supported it, and helped to fund a travel lifestyle for the couple, why expect LE to spot the truth during a brief roadside encounter?
I do think the officers should have spoken to the 911 callers but it's not clear what dispatch told them and it appeared at least one caller "backtracked" on details a bit. So that might not have been useful.
MOO