I have no doubt it was an emotionally abusive relationship because GP blamed herself for everything. That's a huge red flag, imo.I agree with this. I didn’t even watch the full video and I immediately saw her as a victim in a bad relationship and him as being narcissistic due to both of their behaviors and body language in the parts of the video I saw.
Toxic narcissists never take responsibility for their actions. They gaslight as a form of maintaining control. I doubt GP has ever been diagnosed with OCD by anyone other than BL. JMO