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Beat me to it.
Feel free to post your maps! Between the lag and my lack of experience, my map is pretty bad. I thought I'd put something up to give others an idea of the location.
Beat me to it.
Her remains were found about 1,000 feet away from where the van was recorded on 8/27. Quite close.
This entire situation is tragic and was so preventable. I feel so horrible for both Gabby’s and Brian’s families.
Sorry but I think most of you folks are missing it. Perhaps it's me. I don't think Brian killed her. Maybe I'm wrong. I think she killed herself. We will soon know the truth. But it does bother me how folks have so little compassion for the grief of Brian. It is sad. Everyone has an agenda. But sometimes life doesn't follow the agenda. Regardless, pray for Gabby, Brian and all parents.
Now they decide to say something?
You know, I think as a society we need heroic victims and perfect villains. But life isn't always that way. My sense is this guy was an abusive, controlling gaslighter. But it appears that Gabby was not totally stable and resorted to violence in response to his abusiveness.
Frankly, I wish she had been arrested that day. It seems to me that numerous biases were at play on that occasion that led to Gabby not being arrested. I think had she been not as pretty and/or of a different ethnic background, she might have been arrested. I think if she was a man and not a woman, there would've been an arrest.
I mean yes, there seemed to be a good ol' boys thing going on. But the bottom line for me is she was not arrested and per the law, she should have been. Even if his emotional abuse and control "instigated" what she did.
And I can't help but think of the unforeseen consequences of failing to take domestic violence serious.
I believe Gabby would likely be alive today had she been arrested. She would have called her parents to get bail money. Then her family could've gotten more involved and have become aware of the nature of the relationship. She would have had a forced separation from the dude, that may have allowed her to clear her head. She may have been able to see the danger to her - her reputation, her record, her future - if she stayed with that guy.
Instead, she continued on the dark path she was on with the photogenic social media prop she was with, and likely no realization as to the serious danger he posed to her, until it was too late.
Sorry but I think most of you folks are missing it. Perhaps it's me. I don't think Brian killed her. Maybe I'm wrong. I think she killed herself. We will soon know the truth. But it does bother me how folks have so little compassion for the grief of Brian. It is sad. Everyone has an agenda. But sometimes life doesn't follow the agenda. Regardless, pray for Gabby, Brian and all parents.
Sorry but I think most of you folks are missing it. Perhaps it's me. I don't think Brian killed her. Maybe I'm wrong. I think she killed herself. We will soon know the truth. But it does bother me how folks have so little compassion for the grief of Brian. It is sad. Everyone has an agenda. But sometimes life doesn't follow the agenda. Regardless, pray for Gabby, Brian and all parents.
Perhaps, and I'm, not always right. Really, I'm not. But, she had shown to be a bit over the top that LE was involved twice. She was definitely stressed about the vanlife thing. They had just released the video. The were fighting. Any doubt that she was unhappy? I'm not the worlds best judge in people and I only see them on the other side of an internet feed but what I see, that guy was never going to kill her. That guy, with all his flaws, was all hers. Maybe you see something different. And that's ok. But not me, not yet. I don't see him as the kind of guy that can kill a snake let alone his fiance.Suicide based on???? So Brian lawyered up to deal with his grief? I don't see grief in his behavior, I see guilt.
How do you know Hrisn i
How do you know Brian is grieving? Suicide is a possibility, the thought crossed my mind but that does not explain the refusal to communicate with GP’s family. Why don’t you think BL killed her?