MsFacetious
What a Kerfuffle...
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@MsFacetious I can "see" you are catching up (notifications are both awesome and annoying at times haha) I am really curious to hear what your take is on how this trial is going... the time off... the seemingly slow pace... the evidence so far... lol
I will catch up in the morning (6 hours or so from now lol)
I will say good morning to our UK friends that should be joining us soon and will give me something to read with my morning coffee
I can't tell you what I really think because Tricia would ban me so fast the door would hit me on the way out! However, my family has heard it and I even shared it to cheer up a client who was bemoaning how long HIS case is taking!
I'm appalled. Horrified. Disgusted. It's making a mockery of our system, which is far from perfect to begin with. It's completely disrespectful to the JURY, to the MCSTAY'S and also to the defendant. I think I already covered that before.
However, as far as this week goes... I cannot even believe that after a 5 day weekend they STILL couldn't be ready!
So did the defense cross examine for too long Wednesday too? Did they mention Dan too many times? Did they force the state to object too much? Is that why the 2 hour lunch break, hour in court, another break, judge taking a phone call, hour in court, another break and now starting late Thursday? I mean COME ON!! I won't be surprised if court is cancelled Thursday because somebody's sweetheart objects to them being away!
The delays during the STATE'S case can only be blamed on the defense so many times before the state has to be responsible for not preventing it. I can complain several times that the state is failing to turn over timely discovery to my side. However, at some point we have to know that it's going to keep happening and adjust what WE are doing accordingly. When the other side has a pattern you learn to work around it, that's a huge part of strategy. Especially during a long trial because you have plenty of time to do that!
By now the state should have more witnesses than they need waiting at the courthouse. We hate to inconvenience witnesses, yes. However that is only for a couple of DAYS. The jurors are being inconvenienced for half a YEAR. You need to minimize the inconvenience to the jury.
Ok, for arguments sake: CM DOES get them to comply to get into a vehicle. Do you actually think he would get 1/10th of a mile driving away from the home w/o being attacked by JM or SM?
He makes SM or JM drive: Do you think they would literally drive "normal" KNOWING they were headed to their death?
IMO, that makes 0 sense when one's life is on the line, with all due respect.
If my husband is restrained with a broken leg and rib and I'm being forced to drive while the bad guy has my babies... You better believe I'm not going to screw up.
I'd be scared out of my mind but wouldn't intentionally crash because my assumption is my babies wouldn't be in their car seats and he's probably holding a knife to one of them. If my babies weren't in the car, totally different situation.
However I firmly believe that if they did leave the house alive it was with one of the babies lives being threatened. No better way to get two parents to comply than put a knife to their child's neck. It's one reason I've considered the idea that Joey was killed elsewhere. Would be easier for one person to pull it off that way.
I was listening again to McGee's OS, and his very first opening statement in that presentation, really really bothered me...
He said that when Maline brought him onto the defense team, he didnt even know anything about the McStay case. So after reading the police files and reports , this is what jumped out at him:
"This isn’t a case about murders—murders happen every day—this is a case that somebody wanted this family to disappear—and that struck me—who wanted them to disappear and who had to gain from their disappearance…?"
REALLY?
This quadruple murder, where an entire innocent family was bludgeoned to death, was not about 'murder' , because ' murders happen every day'? Seriously? Two tiny boys were slaughtered, alongside their loving mother, but it's not about that, that happens every day....
I found that incredibly dismissive and insulting. It wasn't just about the family disappearing. They could have disappeared in a much less brutal and coldblooded way, if it wasn't also about 'murder.'
Yes, that does sound heartless when looking at it. However, I think I know what he meant.
I think he was saying that if somebody just wanted this family dead, they would have just killed them quickly and left them.
That was not the goal here. They wanted the family to VANISH. So they were killed, then removed, then transported, then buried.
Yes, murders happen every day. People vanishing only to be found buried in the desert, does not happen every day.
Kind of like the difference between a person who "only" rapes and a person who tortures.
Or a person who "only" robs and a person who beats the victim in the process.
See what I'm saying? It's MORE than a "simple" quadruple murder. He certainly should have clarified more.
I have never found I learn anything if everyone in the room agrees with me. When everyone agrees thoughts expressed are just echoes. I like my ideas challenged. No one has to be working for the defense or the DA to have a strong opinion. I only comment on subjects I have researched as fully as I can. I'm here because this case drew me in that deeply. I've been studying the evidence for years. No agenda, other than a wish to discuss the case.
Absolutely agree. I often think outside the box which doesn't make me a lot of friends. But I'm not on anyone's side. I just want justice to be served for all involved. Guilty people in prison, innocent people free.
Sorry. Not in the USA.
The percentage of mom's giving their children popcorn for breakfast is so low, you would be hard pressed to find any Mom doing that unless, they were extremely Poor.
Joey and Summer were NOT extremely poor.
Popcorn isn't cheap. Trust me, I know. I have a father who eats a bag every night. Drives me batty because there are so many healthier, cheaper snacks. My older kids both have braces but my youngest (3.5) often eats popcorn with him.
I have always theorized that the popcorn was a snack while the boys were waiting for breakfast. Hence the eggs and coffee. Of course there are also people who have coffee and breakfast at night as well. It could certainly go either way. No way to know. Then again I've been known to eat pizza with a fork too... so maybe I don't get an opinion on food issues.
It is kinda weird they weren't married, considering they had 3 kids together and what not... I wonder why that was?
I didn't get married until after my 3rd child was born. Never really had any desire to get married but it was important to him. Some people just don't find it a huge deal. It's also possible she didn't want to be legally on the hook for his debts, I wouldn't.
I find it so hypocritical to say that it's suspicious that Chase couldn't remember what he did on what day when we hear 2 officers asking him what he did on the 8th and to help him remember they tell him it's President's day.. a holiday... kids weren't in school. President's day was only 2 days previous and they couldn't remember that? but they expect him to remember every detail.
Yes, this was ridiculous. I mean I know not everyone had an iphone at the time.... but really? Just open ANY calendar and you'll see it right there!