Holding a gun to his head, threatening to jump out of a moving vehicle, texting suicidal threats to Suzanne; it's all about context. What was he trying to accomplish here?
When looking at several of Barry's actions / comments, he is not only a dumbass but also a train wreck.
From the AA:
Barry told Holly words to the effect, "you are Suzanne to me," he held her hand while in the car, gave her a kiss goodnight, told her Suzanne would approve of whatever would happen in their relationship, and twice touched Holly's breasts, pretending like the touches were accidents when her husband's head was turned away or not looking.
On January 25, 2020, Barry's phone~ accessed, "LocalSnapSext.com," "Find a Cute Girl Near Salida,"and, "Come Get Dirty, .- (along with other such sites that were recovered from "Deleted Web Searches" on Barry's phone).
On January 7, 2020, Barry's phone searched "how to make a girl orgasm utube" (Recovered from Deleted Web Searches on Barry's phone).Barry's phone searched "Older Man Younger Woman Relationships - YouTube" (Recovered from Deleted Web Searches on Barry's phone).
On January 24, 2020, Barry's phone searched "3rd base! My first hand job: Dear Teen Diary, 9th Grade, Entry 14 - You Tube" (Recovered from Deleted Web Searches on Barry's phone).
Not to forget......
85 chipmunks
200 mile search radius
Used BAM to tranquilize deer to 'saw off horns'
Peanut butter on a steak. Ate two steaks, shared 1 steak, ate off of 1 plate, 2 plates, put 1 plate in the dishwasher, hand washed the 2nd.
Set an alarm, did not set an alarm.
5 dumpster stops because he is cheap?
Multiple showers, clothes changes on Sunday because 'it relaxes me' ?
I am sure there are many more examples..... smh