OK...who is a Mormon in here?
Does the anal and oral OK, vaginal NOT OK thing ring true to you? Is this the normal state of affairs in the single Mormon circles?
Because there isn't any normal circle that I am aware of religion or otherwise that would agree with that!
The Law of Chastity: Sexual Purity
From Rachel Bruner, former About.com Guide
Our 13th article of faith states that we believe in being chaste, but what does that mean? What is the law of chastity and how does one stay (or become) sexually pure? Learn about the law of chastity, what it means to be morally clean, how to repent from sexual sins, and sexuality within marriage.
Chastity = Moral Cleanliness:
Being chaste means to be morally clean in:thoughts
words
deeds
Anything that leads to lustful thoughts, words, or actions are in violation of God's command to be morally clean. The Family: A Proclamation to the World states:
"God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife" (paragraph four).
No Sexual Relations Before Marriage:
Sexual purity means to not have any sexual relations before being legally married including any thoughts, words, or actions that generate desire and arousal. Keeping the law of chastity means not participating in the following:kissing passionately
necking: kissing on the neck
petting: touching private body parts of another person (with or without clothing)
lying on top of another person
arousing sexual emotions (in your own body or that of another person)
masturbating
viewing *advertiser censored*
reading/watching/listening to anything that arouses sexual feelings
fantasizing or dwelling on sexually arousing thoughts
homosexual activity
Satan tempts us to rationalize that when two people love each other it is acceptable to engage in sexual activity before marriage. This is not true but violates God's law to be clean and pure:
"Physical intimacy between husband and wife is beautiful and sacred. It is ordained of God for the creation of children and for the expression of love within marriage" ("Chastity," True to the Faith, 2004, 2933).
Keeping the law of chastity is also one of the most important guidelines of LDS dating and continues to be important during the dating and courtship process.