Kat
Kind words do not cost much
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When you come back to read 6angels I hope you see this post. Not directing it at you, just saw you needed to walk away for a bit.
I think that arguing whether or not toddler should be with either parent at this time is difficult at best.
To be quite honest, there are some of us here that were abused by a parent, step-parent or guardian. There are some of us who had wonderful familial experiences, being valued and treasured as children.
I find it difficult myself to say what I would do, or what I wouldn't do if I were TMH because even though I was someone's child, even though I am a parent, even though I have been involved in a divorce---
I have never had a child go missing much less missing and not found even six weeks out from disappearing into thin air. I most certainly have never been accused of asking anyone to help me murder my Husband. Heck I've never had an affair much less carried one on within weeks after a child being missing in my care.
What I'm trying to say is this---TMH may be innocent or she may be guilty but for some reason I can't fathom what she is doing or what she has done because she is a completely different animal than me. I think she probably is different from almost all of the posters here. So I can't apply how I would behave in this situation and compare it to how she is acting because I have never in my life been accused of doing the things she has done. Or has done. JMHO.
I think that arguing whether or not toddler should be with either parent at this time is difficult at best.
To be quite honest, there are some of us here that were abused by a parent, step-parent or guardian. There are some of us who had wonderful familial experiences, being valued and treasured as children.
I find it difficult myself to say what I would do, or what I wouldn't do if I were TMH because even though I was someone's child, even though I am a parent, even though I have been involved in a divorce---
I have never had a child go missing much less missing and not found even six weeks out from disappearing into thin air. I most certainly have never been accused of asking anyone to help me murder my Husband. Heck I've never had an affair much less carried one on within weeks after a child being missing in my care.
What I'm trying to say is this---TMH may be innocent or she may be guilty but for some reason I can't fathom what she is doing or what she has done because she is a completely different animal than me. I think she probably is different from almost all of the posters here. So I can't apply how I would behave in this situation and compare it to how she is acting because I have never in my life been accused of doing the things she has done. Or has done. JMHO.