ktgirl
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Well would you allow it?
Wouldn't you tell your kid hey its time to grow up
Get a job
Go back to school?
Not being mean but what the hay!
You said it perfectly!
SHE is an ADULT!
Sadly look at what has happened!
Yes, most of us on this forum and most people in general would try to tell their 19 year old child or grandchild they had to get a job or go to school, etc if they wanted to live off of us or with us, or we'd tell them they had to get a job and do it on their own. The difference here is the we aren't dealing with normal people- Chessie and the Wood clan sure aren't normal. Normal people don't run a child sex ring.
My guess is even if Chessie or anyone else told BW she had to have constant employment, etc, she just would have up and left and went to Wally' mom's anyway where she was enabled to do whatever or nothing at all. She did have jobs from time to time, but none of them for very long, it seems.
I assume Steph and Wally were ever hopeful BW & siblings would get and keep jobs and get their lives together, etc BUT Wally's mom and the Woods were always there to enable BW and siblings. Also, think about how few of the Wood clan had/have their lives together...like they are gonna pressure anyone else to get it together.
I know BW was an adult, but she was also only 19. I made some pretty stupid decisions and was lucky a lot of the time to not have to deal with the worst possible consequences of those decisions when I was that age. And my family wasn't full of weirdo sex predators and enablers.
Sadly, I think the Wood clan has robbed BW of any chance in the future to get her life together.