I’m still unsure about this woman business, if she is indeed the driving force here. If she is, then as mentioned, maaaybe this is good and the BF is assisting strictly in the abduction and nothing more. Meaning Cupcake won’t be harmed.
However if this is man is one with sexual or other intentions this of course if more worrisome.
I’m hoping the first scenario is at hand here. Slightly O/T, on the most recent Dateline I saw where a man indirectly but knowingly assisted a friend in a homicide (rented the car for him). This friend had absolutely nothing personally to gain from this situation except was just willing to “help a friend out”. So one hopeful scenario is just this, that he simply helped get Cupcake for a woman who will not harm her.
Again, how likely this scenario is....
Another thing to note. Even if a woman is driving this through her desire to have a child, it still doesn’t mean that she won’t harm Cupcake.