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"Do you we know how long Paighton has been sober? Was this her first holiday season and was it normal for her to go to a neighborhood bar? Trying to get some sort of idea about her. Thanks."
I have not been able to find any details about her history of recovery/relapse. Whether she frequents bars....who knows? But this is a small town. If she were a regular at this particular bar, I think we would be hearing a very different narrative from LE.
That being said, so often in adult missing person cases they do not involve fowl play.
Given the length of the investigation and the lack of transparency with the public, I'm leaning towards that being the case here. My heart breaks for this family.
Do you have a link for this?Yes, from all reports, that is the case. Apparently, they had a minor disagreement. Over what, I'm not sure.
Thanks for sharing that video. Found it strange how they say at the end it is not a criminal investigation at this time. I almost am wondering now if maybe the black men have been cleared ? Brings alot to question.
The fact that her atm card has not beed used and that her cellphone has been inactive tells us one thing for sure. She no longer has those items in her posession.How did Paighton get to the bar in the first place? No mention of her driving a car; I'm assuming she drove there with the friend to whom she later texted? A lot of assumptions here, to be sure, but another one is this: Was she accompanied to the bar by only this one friend, or were there others? She comes from Trussville which is 20 miles away. Seems like a fairly long distance to travel to have drinks, but I guess that's beside the point really.
I keep coming back to the fact that her ATM card has not been used. Let's face it. If she did go on a drug binge it's hard to believe there would be someone so generous as to buy them for her over an extended period of time. Also, wouldn't she need money to eat?
I agree, that information does explain her leaving, a possible disagreement with a friend, etc. It does help to paint a picture of how these events could transpire. And also as to what could have happened afterwards.It appears the "missing person" status is why video and personal information about PH is being withheld.
According to WBRC/News 6 video -- there's no indication of a crime committed and the case is still being investigated as a "missing person" investigation.
I understand the desire to protect PH's privacy but I also think it would benefit the search effort if family/LE/media would share that PH was recently in recovery for heroin addiction.
Everybody wants to know why PH would willingly leave the bar 15 minutes after the band started, and more than an hour later send a SOS text to her friend (that stayed at the bar) that she may be in trouble and to pick up the phone if she calls. I don't think the friend and/or co-workers wanted to go where PH was headed.
Hoping the best for this girl and her family and friends that love her.
MOO
It appears the "missing person" status is why video and personal information about PH is being withheld.
According to WBRC/News 6 video -- there's no indication of a crime committed and the case is still being investigated as a "missing person" investigation.
I understand the desire to protect PH's privacy but I also think it would benefit the search effort if family/LE/media would share that PH was recently in recovery for heroin addiction.
Everybody wants to know why PH would willingly leave the bar 15 minutes after the band started, and more than an hour later send a SOS text to her friend (that stayed at the bar) that she may be in trouble and to pick up the phone if she calls. I don't think the friend and/or co-workers wanted to go where PH was headed.
Hoping the best for this girl and her family and friends that love her.
MOO
Hows it not criminal? Shes missing
Charlaine Houston, Paighton's mother, states on her FB page about "the co-worker she rode with to the Tin Roof bar" . She goes on to describe the text message sent asking her to please answer if she calls.How did Paighton get to the bar in the first place? No mention of her driving a car; I'm assuming she drove there with the friend to whom she later texted? A lot of assumptions here, to be sure, but another one is this: Was she accompanied to the bar by only this one friend, or were there others? She comes from Trussville which is 20 miles away. Seems like a fairly long distance to travel to have drinks, but I guess that's beside the point really.
I keep coming back to the fact that her ATM card has not been used. Let's face it. If she did go on a drug binge it's hard to believe there would be someone so generous as to buy them for her over an extended period of time. Also, wouldn't she need money to eat?
I suspect the reason police are not releasing the video is there is no point. Tin Roof at the very beginning said there were off-duty police at the club. It is possible that the two African-American men were either security, bouncers or off duty police and escorted her out the door. Her ATM card was found on the floor near the bar and it was reported she had a disagreement/argument with her friend/co-worker. Sorry, these may have been reported on FB and not allowed. In any case. if Paighton was disruptive she may have been escorted out the door and the two men would have just turned around and come back in. If this is the case, she may have been wandering outside and been picked up by anyone who promised her a ride. We actually may never know where she went or what happened to her. IMHO!
While I don't think PH is voluntarily missing after 9 days, we know process too well.
I'm sure LE already told her family that PH is an adult and exercising her right to disappear is not a criminal act. There's also no evidence she left the Tin Roof unwillingly. She never placed the "phone call" she texted about. Her alleged drug history makes her high risk to go missing, etc..
What happened to the post on here that showed a comment from (presumably) LE wherein he/she explains the reasons for not revealing all they know to the public. Among the reasons were:
Facts become distorted just as gossip changes in its content as it passes from one source to another;
The perps and their friends/associates are most likely watching, reading and listening to every detail that comes forth about the case;
If too much is revealed about LE's investigation the parties who are responsible for PH's disappearance may burn/destroy critical evidence;
The person who wrote the comment said that he/she had been working 70-some hours on this case and assured the public that the investigation has been ongoing, non-stop.
There may have been other points stated. If anyone here can recall anything else please post. Perhaps the original poster could put those comments back up again? Maybe they're still here somewhere, but I couldn't locate them. Thanks!