Kudzuu
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You have a point.I have put myself in her shoes many times..I have imagined it in many languages too. Italy is not some third world country with little law , I disagree very much that she was so hysterical and unable to understand when she speaks Italian is there to speak Italian, can talk to a lawyer...can call her parents..can handle a misunderstanding and work through problems because she is not an idiot. But even when she has all this going for her she just throws in the towel and accuses her boss of murder? sorry but just no. I don't buy it. I know LE can be very intimidating and she was no doubt frightened , hungry etc..but her own behavior was so unhinged that all this is what took her to a jail sentence to begin with. I don't believe anyone hit her either. I don't believe her.
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I want to believe she's innocent but I stumble over naming her boss and friend. If it were me I'd never set foot in Italy again. I think most judicial systems don't like to admit they were wrong so by this time she should know that. I'd take my freedom over pushing my conviction of slander and be done with it.
Respectfully I think the term gaslighting was what I questioned. I think she is more histrionic. Not that women can't be gaslighters but in AK's case I think she gets really emotional to the point of hysterics to elicit sympathy. What I would call playing the victim.
I have a lady doing this very thing to me right now and I'm not buying it. She gaslighted ME then went crying to others for sympathy when I quit interacting with her.
My opinions and I mean no disrespect to AK.
I have learned I "can be taken in" by people as we say here. I will have to re evaluate the evidence.