I think the children are also under a gag order and it's there to protect the state. Charge them with a crime or let them have their kids back.
BBM. This is being handed in family court, so they won't be charged with a crime.
A lot of people agree with you that abuse of children by their parents
should be criminalized. Children are not treated by our laws as people with rights, IMO, but more often as possessions. Bio-parents have far more "rights" than their children do. If more parents
were arrested when they beat, abuse, and neglect their kids, maybe fewer kids would end up dead. The same groups of people who so loudly advocate for parents to have even MORE laws and rights to do as they please with their bio kids, including beating them in the name of religion, fight tooth and nail to give
fetuses more rights than
living children, IMO. It's
immensely hypocritical, IMO. I'll never, ever be able to understand that. (And I won't go any further off topic than that.)
If someone beats up a child on the street or in a school, it's a crime, LE arrest them, and they enter the judicial system. If a parent beats the *he!!* out of their OWN child, most often it ends up in family court, and it's a "domestic issue", handled by social workers, with few or no real penalties to the parent/s.
Frankly, after a
2 day court hearing, the children in this case were continued in foster care. From all reports, including the parents reports, the kids are doing well in foster care and are healthy and safe, and receiving education. And on the 12th, the court extended that temporary foster care situation by another 6 weeks. Something serious
is going on,
we just don't know the details.
The parents appear to be attempting to comply with the court's direction. They also have launched a very calculated and manipulative campaign on social media to control the conversation, tiptoe around the gag order, and deflect criticism from what they have been accused of doing at home. It's clear they don't agree with what the courts have determined about their conduct. They are perfectly willing to blame and vilify their own 2 teenagers in the media and in a number of interviews in past weeks! That's simply astonishing to me! I think that is
quite worrisome on 2 levels-- worrisome about what the home environment and discipline situation might be like when and if those 2 teens return home, and whether or not it will even be possible for the parents to comply at a level that will allow them to regain custody.
The parents, IMO, need to shut down all the social media (and ask their friends to do that on their behalf), stop giving interviews, stop blaming their teenagers, and just work with their lawyers and the court ordered social services. Interviews and social media campaigns make the parents look vindictive, belligerant, and antisocial, IMO. Not a good image for parents who have lost custody of their children. They need to demonstrate that they are reasonable, rational, emotionally/ mentally stable, and focused on their children, IMO. Not ranting about religious persecution, homeschooling persecution, "aquaponics persecution", etc.
I have to wonder how much insight they have into their own behavior, since they are quick to blame everyone else for their situation. The Stanleys are pretty lucky they were not charged with any crimes, IMO-- imagine how much more complicated their situation would be in that case.