Yes, I don't want to be compared to a murderer either. That post was ridiculous. God knows I've felt like strangling a few people. It's okay to think about it, but once you do it, you cross the line and you're a different breed.
I have no compassion for this monsters "frailty". I always try and empathize with people, but the only thing I see here is a womanizing, violent, liar who snuffed out the life of the beautiful mother of his own 3 girls.
I think if this happened to one of my daughters, maybe 20 years down the track I may be able to forgive, but this doesn't mean for one minute what he did was in any way justifiable. The forgiveness would be for my own benefit so I can heal and move on. More of a release of anger.
No one is comparing you to a murderer, five weeks ago you wouldn't not have looked twice at the BC they were ordinary people. Something happened that changed life in an instant. If GBC is guilty (which I beleive he is) he hadn't murdered anyone before in his 41 year, as far as we know,, he was not a sadisitc serial killer, he was no Ivan Milat. If and when he is found gulity he will go to jail and serve a long sentence, as would be expected. But none of them have two heads and have grown horns, they are ordinary everyday people. I am sure all of us have done something in our lives that we are not proud of, in the majority of cases not as extreme as murder, but nonetheless something less then praiseworthy. There cannot be good on one side and bad on the other, that is a fairytale. I am sorry but I must be a heartless person, because I can't get myself so emotionally involved in the murder of someone that I didn't know, to need to release some anger. I am fascinated by the case and by the many theories that have come forward, I question some of the things that have happened, but I have more then enough in my own life to cope with, then to have to vent my anger on a website about a murder of a person I never knew. I have a seventeen year old - I live in interesting times!!LOL