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And besides he didn't have time to help arrange the funeral with The Dickies because he had made plans for the weekend........It was more important to go away with friends then decide who carried his wifes casket or read the eulogy and God forbid he even had the time to spend with the grieving parents of the woman he is supposed to of loved??.........I understand ABC's parents wanting to contribute to Allisons funeral but I can tell you now I don't know any other husband or wife that would not want to contribute the most....I wonder if he paid for it?????
The Funeral Director said a few days back that the "husband was being kept in the loop" with regard to the plans and that the husband had called a few times. I think, for the Dickies' sake, it was best that he was not involved.
Just to add the cat among the pigeons, perhaps he wasn't a major player in the funeral because no one was sure whether he would be there or not!!
What is your theory of what happened?
hey berry how you after today
GBC claimed damages against Flight Centre:
http://apps.courts.qld.gov.au/esear...Location=BRISB&Court=DISTR&Filenumber=5135/00
"Damages" could be something like wrongful dismissal.
I remarked on it because it was filed in Dec 2000 but GBC's resume on linkedin and [another site - forget the name] says he worked for flight centre a second time, briefly, starting and ending in 2001.
http://au.linkedin.com/pub/gerard-baden-clay/9/50a/5b0
I think it's a perfectly feasible theory that he wasn't a pallbearer because he wanted to stay with the children.
I know the moment that a coffin leaves has been, by far, the worst moment for me at many funerals I've been to. It makes everything very final.
In the same situation, I would want to stay with my children and support them.
The Funeral Director said a few days back that the "husband was being kept in the loop" with regard to the plans and that the husband had called a few times. I think, for the Dickies' sake, it was best that he was not involved.
I think it's a perfectly feasible theory that he wasn't a pallbearer because he wanted to stay with the children.
Anyone notice he wasn't a pallbearer? Dunno about you guys but it's pretty normal in my experience for the 6 men closest to the deceased to carry them as a sign of respect.
So why not?
Better photo op to walk behind with kids?
Sense of deja vu?
Other men sure as hell weren't going to let him near her?
Yes, I agree but only if he is guilty...That to me speaks volumes!
Like I said before...i wonder who paid for it?
Not sure if this has been posted yet: 16 photos of Allison's funeral from the Courier Mail.
http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/gallery-e6frer9f-1226353110367?page=1
There is a pic of Olivia hugging ABC's Best Friend Kerry-Anne - They look very close and another with Kerry Anne in the background looking destroyed and anabsolute mess.....I don't know what I would do if I lost my besty....She is the person I love like I love my husband (without the intamcey of course) the one I tell my deepest darkest secret, the one I turn to when I need help and know she will be there when I need it no matter what time of the day.....I think Kerry knows what happened to ABC, I believe ABC knew her movements that night and exactly what was happening in her Marriage and Business.
I think Kerry has probably had words with GBC if she had any suspicion that he has done this....And in fact if ABC was missing that night, then Kerry should of been GBC's first port of call because her best friend would of been out looking for her no matter what time it was...I know I would of if it was my best friend...Dressing Gown and Slippers and all!
I think it's a perfectly feasible theory that he wasn't a pallbearer because he wanted to stay with the children.
I know the moment that a coffin leaves has been, by far, the worst moment for me at many funerals I've been to. It makes everything very final.
In the same situation, I would want to stay with my children and support them.
I believe GBC is genuinely distressed and upset and not putting on an act. I also agree with whoever posted that part of him clinging to the girls is him needing to cling to them rather than him providing for thier needs to cling ti him. (but only partly because I do believe he is a loving father).
Regarding his show of grief I believe it is a mixture of emotions representing his place in all this and how he would be feeling about that - as follows:
(Note this is based on my opinion that he is responsible for Allisons death)
1. Concern for the girls, as he does love them and he now sees the worst of the effects on them
2. Being surrounded by so much love and emotion for Allison from such a large crowd has reminded him of Allisons wonderful qualities which he once must have appreciated - so a harking back to what once was.
3. Being in a situation which is a symbolic representation, in the saddest possible way, of how monumentally he has stuffed up, therefore crying for himself as such an abject failure.
4. Feeling very alone because for the most part Allisons family have organised the funeral, and people are having to 'work around' him at the funeral, most of them probably thinking he is guilty. They are all supporting each other and he is the odd one out. Where are all his 'best mates' - he probably never had any.
5. Feeling very sorry for himself, because he is quite self-absorbed and narcissistic, and genuinely worried about what is going to happen to him.
Put it all together and it makes for a person who is genuinely distressed and upset. People are complicated and no one is all bad, thus it is not as simple as saying - "look at him, he clearly loves his daughters", or, "after looking at him I'm now wondering if heven did it", or, on the other hand, "look at him, he is putting on an act, the fake, self-absorbed murderer!"
None of this has changed my opinion of the case - his behaviour today was totally apppropriate to the reality of the situation in all its facets - and notice that in all my points, if you agree (which some may not) Allison herself does not feature much in the cause of the grief and distressed reaction.