As a mere male, I have NEVER heard my wife use those terms. The thing with her money and credit cards in is usually her purse - occasionally wallet.
The thing with the purse in it, as well as her phone, make-up, and all the other stuff she carries is her handbag - occasionally just her 'bag'.
Calling a handbag a purse is the American way - I know we're absorbing more of it all the time, but not this one I'd suggest. I also have Gen Y nieces, and they use the same terms as my wife does.
And just on the point of Bankcards (and other credit cards generally) being wiped by magnets - most nowadays are NOT. They incorporate a chip, rather than a magnetic stripe. Some have both. Australia was fairly late to the party for so-called "Chip & PIN" cards, but most of the older mag stripe cards have been replaced with chipped cards over the last couple of years.
It's a hair-splitting point, I know, but relevant if you're suggesting that she would not carry her credit card loose in a handbag due to magnetic interference with it.
My wife goes out to dinner with workmates quite frequently, and she takes her handbag, containing her phone and a credit card and some tissues. That's it. She leaves her purse at home, with all the other credit cards, loyalty cards, drivers's licence, etc.
So when Jill's husband said she didn't take her purse with her, I would assume he meant she did exactly what my wife does. Left the purse lying on the kitchen table or somewhere, but knowing she was OK for money because she had her credit card - in her handbag.
The interesting tidbit that the police now think the bag may have been planted later is quite perplexing, really. What on earth would an abductor hope to gain by that, apart from the obvious thing of trying to put the police off the scent by suggesting place and direction which is deliberately misleading? That just doesn't make sense to me - if I had possession of some incriminating evidence, the LAST place I'd put it would be right in the middle of the intensive search area.
Yay! I didn't know they'd FINALLY replaced the magnetic strip...as you say it is only within the last couple of years so I would wager most women wouldn't know and would still be erring on the side of caution. We've all made the mistake
Also, you are a man. No insult intended but we were discussing a man's use of the word "purse". My ex husband called a "dress" a "skirt" and vice versa, but he grew up in a home without any females.
As I keep saying, go to ebay australia and search for womens purses.
You will get handbags. Handbags and purses mean the same here.
I believe her husband meant she left home without her handbag - yet it turned up.
As far as the staging...I'm with you...:what:???
Clearly the police didn't "just miss it" the first time around, clearly it was placed after the initial search.
What would the motive be?
To imply she was taken at a different location?
To fit with a "story"?
To imply a local is involved? As this would require a trip BACK to the site, I would imagine a local actually IS involved, anyway.
Who goes off to work without their handbag? Not me. A woman's handbag is her life. If you go to work you are gone for an extended period and may unexpectedly need pain relief, tissues, lipstick, hairspray, a brush, moisturiser, your diary, an umbrella (especially in Melbourne). Even if I go out the door and think "I won't need my bag" I usually take it anyway because experience has proven me wrong too many times.
I simply cannot see her going to work and then on to drinks after, with just her phone and a bankcard. A woman like Jill owns several handbags, they are accessories, she enjoys them and probably spends quite a bit of money on buying nice ones.
All opinion only of course. She may have used an old kmart bag for all I know.