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I don't know. Some things take your time to get your head around.
Most sleuthers here from what I have seen are drawn here because we have had some sort of trauma of our own. Some sort of unanswered question. Something that keeps us awake at night. That's a generalisation of course, but my impression of what brings us together to seek truth and justice is a drive from our own past.
I'm not playing the sympathy bell here, but I need to outline something to make a point. I had an exceptionally turbulent and traumatic childhood. By 18 years of age I had been to 9 funerals of people directly close to me - not random great aunt Mildred, but people from my daily life.
My husband on the other hand has all grandparents still alive, even though he is 36. The biggest death he has had was last year when the puppy he grew up with passed away.
A few years ago we were first on the scene of a fatal car accident when driving interstate. Because of what I do professionally, I basically had him on the phone to 000 updating them on the situation, having him relay my requests for medstar activation and a paeds intensivist, while I worked on the victims.
For me, it was upsetting, tragic but I can sort of shrug and say **** happens. I feel so deeply for the families, but for work I need to have a detatchment
For him, it was the first time death had ever shown its face, and it literally took months for him to get over and move on from.
If it had been my husband that witnessed that - he would have been in shock, both from the event but also what emotions were crawling up.
I absolutely know he would have gone to work that day. Tried to avoid it. He wouldn't even know how to say to me "guess what I saw on the way to work today" - but he might give it up after some probing by me.
Then I would try to convince him to go to the police. He would downplay the importance of whT he saw, what it could mean. Eventually he would come around and do it.
But I can easily see it taking days not minutes to arrive at that point.
We sleuthers are strong, hardened by the harshness of life's experiences, and we also know the importance of information that may seem trivial.
Not everyone else does, so let's not judge a witness for taking time to come forward, let us commend the fact that he did.
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So this guy witnesses a murder, notes that the person who dumped the body is standing not too far from him acting in a very strange manner. There are not a whole lot of people about at this time and any one of these people MAY be a witness to the event. Might tell all. A witness might even hold the key to his getting away with it. Although agitated, the person who discarded the "luggage" is sober enough to be poking Lisa's head when others are trying to resuscitate her. Was he preparing to finish her off if necessary? What ELSE is this person such as this capable of?
Not only has Joshua witnessed what appears to be a murder, he was almost rubbing shoulders with a monster. This same monster may or may not be high on drugs, he may be a lunatic or insane, he may be anything. Not many minutes before, this monster was screaming violently.
Need to tread very carefully Joshua. Above all, stay alive and be a good, strong, clear minded and reliable witness.
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If it had been my husband that witnessed that - he would have been in shock, both from the event but also what emotions were crawling up.
I absolutely know he would have gone to work that day. Tried to avoid it. He wouldn't even know how to say to me "guess what I saw on the way to work today" - but he might give it up after some probing by me.
Then I would try to convince him to go to the police. He would downplay the importance of whT he saw, what it could mean. Eventually he would come around and do it.
But I can easily see it taking days not minutes to arrive at that point.
We sleuthers are strong, hardened by the harshness of life's experiences, and we also know the importance of information that may seem trivial.
Not everyone else does, so let's not judge a witness for taking time to come forward, let us commend the fact that he did.
Nobody said he had to confront Gittany, but any rational person would go and tell the police, report it to someone, ring up, anything. I mean he just saw a MURDER, and he goes to work??? This is actually unbelievable. Any idea on when he actually reported what he saw??
He said his attention was drawn to the apartment in The Hyde building after hearing "deranged" screams while walking to the ABC's Ultimo office, where he worked as an editor, at about 9.55am
Mr Rathmell continued on his way to work where he later called police to report what he'd seen.
http://news.ninemsn.com.au/national/2013/10/24/12/46/witness-thought-screams-were-a-junkie
Unfortunately, there are many murders in this world that are witnessed by others, and/or people have knowledge of them, and police cant find the witnesses, none come forward, and the crimes are unable to be prosecuted. Happens too frequently in the US, and happens here too.
There are Australian murder cases here on WS that I believe people have witnessed and/or have knowledge of and havent come forward . Novy Chardon, Shandee Blackburn, Robert Martinez, Chantal Barnett, Kylie Blackwood to name a few.
You are comparing an accident to a murder. Totally different. It is not abnormal and very common to witness accidents of any type, and to continue normally with your day, after all its not even a crime. But to witness a murder, and just continue on your merry to work is almost unbelievable. He has a mobile he could have reported it instantly and most people would do.
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Nobody said he had to confront Gittany, but any rational person would go and tell the police, report it to someone, ring up, anything. I mean he just saw a MURDER, and he goes to work??? This is actually unbelievable. Any idea on when he actually reported what he saw??