Okay, I just have to add my :twocents: on the effeminate issue...
I dated a man for three years in my early 20s who was from South America who was effeminate.. the way he crossed his legs, the way he held his cigarette, the way he danced.. but he was intelligent and cultured and didn't have to have the "rugby" mentality of a "man" and was secure with that. He was also the most attentive, affectionate and probably the BEST lover I ever had!!! (I know TMI.. just making a point
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So, yeah... it does NOT necessarily mean Sergio has any homosexual tendencies. I AM very concerned about the no contact order though and IMO am wondering if perhaps they may have found something incriminating on his computer???
I mean,
they never issued a no contact order in the Josh Powell casend look what happened?? I'm thinking it's got to be something huge...