Comments on Tommy Schaefer's
October 2016 Facebook post -- Part 1
1. He cannot bring himself to explicitly admit he committed murder. Until he does this, he is not a man seeking truth, but a man proffering excuses.
2. His attacks on Heather, while close to entirely true, are waged solely on his own behalf -- with motivations like envy, anger, spite, revenge, remorse at being caught and convicted, distress with his own poverty, getting even, and so on.
3. He elevates his own suffering over all others, not just the dead (Sheila), but the living (Stella).
He repeatedly mopes over his own suffering: "I know what its like to lose everything."
And, "Im not sure how she [Heather] is having such a good time in jail ... I certainly am not..." And, referring to himself, "...its taken everything youve ever had or dreamed of away."
4. His account is laced with pure lies: "I never believed that this little girl really had the balls to kill someone."
"I just happened to be the boyfriend at the time this all transpired."
"I never wanted to be a part of this but my association with her is the main reason of why I am where I am today."
One word only: lies.
5. He admits that his own pride has interfered with his relationship with Stella. Even if Heather has behaved atrociously as a gatekeeper to Stella, Tommy is too immature and self-centered to swallow the bitter pill and do the right thing for his child. "Seeing her [Heather] in the prison puts me in excruciating pain. Unbearable enough that I choose not to be too close with Stella."
So instead, he complains about Heather, ignoring what his pride has done to his relationship with his daughter: "She uses the baby to control me, to do things for her, to act like im in love, to make a fool out of me, and to manipulate my genuine concern for others."
Further, "I have to swallow my pride if I want to play a role in Stellas life." And rather than than swallow his pride, we know that he went weeks without seeing Stella. Way to go, Tommy! Schaefer pride intact!
6. "I truly hate being in the news personally, but more so because there are huge and much more important issues that we must tend to as a society that were not making progress on."
Leave Tommy alone. He is a murderer who doesn't like attention.
7. This document exists primarily as an attempt to divert blame from himself onto Heather. I have no doubt that Heather is as guilty as Tommy, quite likely more so. Even very much more so. But Heather's guilt does not eradicate Tommy's. He pretends otherwise.
To read Tommy Schaefer's complete
Facebook post of 10 October 2016,
see FigTree's post #2115 upthread.
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