It amazes me how CA was so involved with Caylee-she made sure her room was beautifully decorated, her closet was full of clothes and wonderful Disney outfits, she made sure she had tons of toys inside and outside the home, she paid for her medical bills and the food bills. Why would anyone so involved with their grandaughter not have the phone numbers and addresses of her babysitter? It would appear that CA and GA were alittle OC, then how can you ignore the big white elephant sitting in your house? Did they just practice keeping up the appearance of a normal family while tiptoeing around KC. How can someone who has toothbrushes for her dogs not have babysitter information?:bang:
I've said this over and over again. It's not normal that she wouldn't have the "nanny's" information. It's not normal that a former LE grandfather didn't check out the "nanny".
I've said all along that CA and GA should be charged on the neglect and endangering of a minor as well as KC. Those two
knew that Caylee lived in their home with them and had no place else to live. They
knew this. For 31 days that baby did not sleep in her own bed. She was not there for meals, to be bathed, nothing. All clothes were there. They didn't bother to look? No communication whatsoever. Spending the night out
one night, ok. Thirty-one days? Absurd. Did they think that little Caylee was wearing the same clothes for 31 days?
The very first time that Casey didn't show up with Caylee when she said she was going to CA should have been on the phone with LE requesting a welfare check on Caylee. She had the license plate of the car. She knew they were probably living in it.
My son has numerous friends from H.S. Most of them are in college now and they're a pretty tight-knit group. Three of the young ladies are now unwed mothers.
There are times he'll bring one of the three (toddlers and one infant) to the house for temporary child care while their Moms are in class when regular childcare (grandparents) isn't available to them. It's been going on for about a year now. They really do help each other and look out for each other. And, living so close to the college it's not hard for him to bring the little one's here to care for them while Mom's in class and he's not. Usually only a couple of hours at a time.
Even at that, we have every cell phone, home phone, emergency, every one of their pediatricians numbers, the two grandfather's work numbers, etc. on the refrigerator. We parents met each other years ago when the kids were in H.S. so that was already a given. Moms and Grandparents know exactly where we live and have picked the little ones up countless times from the house.
My son is 23. The girls are 22 and 23. Same age as KC. (No, my son isn't the father of any of the children. He has no children.)
Sorry for rambling with the example above. The point is that it's completely
abnormal and
neglectful that the grandparents of a child living in their home have no clue about the nanny that is supposed to be providing care for that baby.
Especially when the child's mother has a history such as KC's. And they
know what she's all about. All the denial and efforts to seem like they're a perfectly normal family will never change that.
Again, sorry for the long post. Everything about the neglect of little Caylee by all in her family just sends me 'round the bend with anger.