Self-explanatory, CA's observations about KC ----
July 3 Cindy posted this on MySpace:
Thursday, July 03, 2008: "My caylee is missing She came into my life unexpectedly, just as she has left me. This precious little angel from above gave me strength and unconditional love. Now she is gone and I don’t know why. All I am guilty of is loving her and providing her a safe home. Jealousy has taken her away. Jealousy from the one person that should be thankfull for all of the love and support given to her. A mother’s love is deep, however there are limits when one is betrayed by the one she loved and trusted the most. A daughter comes to her mother for support when she is pregnant, the mother says without hesitation it will be ok. And it was. But then the lies and betrayal began. First it seemed harmless, ah, love is blind. A mother will look for the good in her child and give them a chance to change. This mother gave chance after chance for her daughter to change, but instead more lies more betrayal. What does the mother get for giving her daughter all of these chances? A broken heart. The daughter who stole money, lots of money, leaves without warning and does not let her mother now speak to the baby that her mother raised, fed, clothed, sheltered, paid her medical bills, etc. Instead tells her friends that her mother is controlling her life and she needs her space. No money, no future. Where did she go? Who is now watching out for the little angel?"
Her motive was self centered narcissism. She wanted a life without any hindrances of a child. She "thought" her lies would work with LE just as they had all her life with her evil parents.
Her only hope now is to claim George did it as he has been caught in his lie about seeing Caylee on the 16th when she was already dead.
Re-reading this post of CA's after all that has come to light since the beginning really makes a difference. CA talks about all of the lies and betrayal. Hmmmm. I wonder how she will contrast these statements with her KC is the 'mother-of-the-year' statement? Knowing how often and how much she stole from her own parents and other family members, it is not a stretch at all, IMO, to think that she is the one who stole from TL and his roommates. In all that we know of her stealing from AH, and the whole sleepwalking thing, I'd say she should be the number 1 suspect.
Lisa, I was responding to many people who repeatedly post that KC "got TL to break into her father's shed" as if that is a fact. There is no evidence that that is what happened. It is completely reasonable to say that TL, like anyone else, is responsible for his own actions. He is in fact responsible under the law. He was a 21 year old man at the time, not a child. She couldn't make him do it. The fact that he by his own admission did break into the shed is proof enough that he reached a decision to do it, the action shows the decision.
As far as whose original idea or why, I have no idea. He had many available girls at the club as seen in the club pictures, so it's not like KC's sex appeal would somehow make him commit a break-in against his will, you know. I know it sounds ridiculous, I was only responding to this frequently stated theory that she somehow "made him do it" because of others frequently stating this as if it were a fact.
I think a man breaking your own car window at your request is different from a person breaking into a third party's shed for gas cans rather than simply getting gas in a legal and normal way.
My personal opinion is that a young man who would actually break into a third party's shed for gas cans instead of getting gas in any respectable, normal, legal way shows very poor judgment and impulse control and if I were the grandparents I would be frightened of my granddaughter being around that person. But now that's MOO.
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You are leaving out the part where he broke the lock on the shed in order for KC to get gas for HER car. It was her car that ran out of gas, and it was her house, not a third party. SHE lived there, not rented just a room, SHE lived there. That was her LEGAL address (as stated on her d/l and all the arrest warrants) KC walked him through her garage that she opened, to her backyard to meet up with a locked shed. (GA did state that he recently put the lock on there due to neighborhood breakins ... wonder who else on that block frequently runs out of gas) This makes a difference. As far as grandparents not trusting their granddaughter around someone like TL due to poor judment & impulse control, apparently TL himself did not feel that it was GOOD judgment to have a 2 yr old around a bunch of partying 21 yrs olds. I would think that if the grandparents had any worries, they should have been worrying about their granddaughter being with her very own mother, and a Nanny that was unknown to them.
all jmho
Lisa, I was responding to many people who repeatedly post that KC "got TL to break into her father's shed" as if that is a fact. There is no evidence that that is what happened. It is completely reasonable to say that TL, like anyone else, is responsible for his own actions. He is in fact responsible under the law. He was a 21 year old man at the time, not a child. She couldn't make him do it. The fact that he by his own admission did break into the shed is proof enough that he reached a decision to do it, the action shows the decision.
As far as whose original idea or why, I have no idea. He had many available girls at the club as seen in the club pictures, so it's not like KC's sex appeal would somehow make him commit a break-in against his will, you know. I know it sounds ridiculous, I was only responding to this frequently stated theory that she somehow "made him do it" because of others frequently stating this as if it were a fact.
I think a man breaking your own car window at your request is different from a person breaking into a third party's shed for gas cans rather than simply getting gas in a legal and normal way.
My personal opinion is that a young man who would actually break into a third party's shed for gas cans instead of getting gas in any respectable, normal, legal way shows very poor judgment and impulse control and if I were the grandparents I would be frightened of my granddaughter being around that person. But now that's MOO.
Her motive was self centered narcissism. She wanted a life without any hindrances of a child. She "thought" her lies would work with LE just as they had all her life with her evil parents.
Her only hope now is to claim George did it as he has been caught in his lie about seeing Caylee on the 16th when she was already dead.
Who says? I mean, evidence wise, not popular theory wise.
Who says it's the truth? Besides TL.
LE took statements from some of the people who'd been around Caylee and Casey, examined some of their phone records to a limited extent, and searched the back of TL's car (without cadaver dogs) for hair, blood, etc. That's it. Of course Tony cooperated with police, wore a wire to tape the young mother's brother (whatever, why not) and allowed his phone to be tapped. None of this clears him in any way or proves he was not involved in a crime against Caylee, though I also have never accused him of that (I haven't accused anyone yet.)
We don't know why Casey gave the strange, cryptic statements, or what her reasons were. She certainly could have been involved in what happened to Caylee, but not necessarily. Many reasons are possible besides being the murderer. However, her refusal or inability to cooperate with police could certainly get her convicted.
Regarding "comparing the shed incident and eating chicken with not reporting your toddler missing", I did not make that comparison. :waitasec: (I do get your point though. I just don't take it for granted that she's the one who harmed Caylee, though. I'm still not sure on that point, so I don't interpret everything else in quite the same way that some people do.)
But..if KC was telling TL the same BS that she was telling other friends, then this shed was for all intent and purposes HERS. The house was going to be hers in a matter of days, according to one of her many half-truths. (AKA lies in the real world) I can't imagine that TL even knew that there was a shed with gas cans, so it stands to reason that she asked him to break the lock on HER shed. JMHO
Self-explanatory, CA's observations about KC ----
July 3 Cindy posted this on MySpace:
Thursday, July 03, 2008: "My caylee is missing She came into my life unexpectedly, just as she has left me. This precious little angel from above gave me strength and unconditional love. Now she is gone and I don’t know why. All I am guilty of is loving her and providing her a safe home. Jealousy has taken her away. Jealousy from the one person that should be thankfull for all of the love and support given to her. A mother’s love is deep, however there are limits when one is betrayed by the one she loved and trusted the most. A daughter comes to her mother for support when she is pregnant, the mother says without hesitation it will be ok. And it was. But then the lies and betrayal began. First it seemed harmless, ah, love is blind. A mother will look for the good in her child and give them a chance to change. This mother gave chance after chance for her daughter to change, but instead more lies more betrayal. What does the mother get for giving her daughter all of these chances? A broken heart. The daughter who stole money, lots of money, leaves without warning and does not let her mother now speak to the baby that her mother raised, fed, clothed, sheltered, paid her medical bills, etc. Instead tells her friends that her mother is controlling her life and she needs her space. No money, no future. Where did she go? Who is now watching out for the little angel?"
Clearly we could go back and forth on these issues all day. If Casey made a statement tomorrow that she killed Caylee, someone could say "How do we KNOW that's true? She's lied before." The legal standard is "beyond a reasonable doubt" not "beyond a shadow of a doubt." Could aliens have come and taken Caylee? Well, yes. We can not completely discount that theory because we don't know if there are aliens or not; But is it really reasonable to think that's what happened? It is just NOT true that KC had no history of neglecting Caylee (her friends have talked about KC taking her to adult parties and leaving her unattended while "in another room" with TonE --balcony incident). If you argue that her friends might be lying about that, how can you accept when they say something exculpatory as "proof" (that they never witnessed physical abuse, and had a "loving, normal attachment to Caylee," for instance)? If your point is that we will never know 100% that KC did it because the world has pedophiles and secret agents and drug cartels and evil nannies and possibly aliens, then I concede. You often post that "It has not been proven in court." When KC is convicted ,(yes, I said WHEN not if) will you accept her guilt or still insist it wasn't "proven?" Can you give an example of what would prove to you that KC is guilty?
If a parent hears a loud noise, goes upstairs to find his/her child holding a hammer and there is a hole in the wall, it is reasonable to think the child has just put a hole in the wall with that hammer. Do we know it 100%? Nope! The evil neighbor child could have done it and escaped out the window before the parent got there. Look at the polls on this forum and you will see that the overwhelming majority draw the reasonable conclusion that KC is standing in front of the hole in the wall with a hammer in her hand.
Self-explanatory, CA's observations about KC ----
July 3 Cindy posted this on MySpace:
Thursday, July 03, 2008: "My caylee is missing She came into my life unexpectedly, just as she has left me. This precious little angel from above gave me strength and unconditional love. Now she is gone and I dont know why. All I am guilty of is loving her and providing her a safe home. Jealousy has taken her away. Jealousy from the one person that should be thankfull for all of the love and support given to her. A mothers love is deep, however there are limits when one is betrayed by the one she loved and trusted the most. A daughter comes to her mother for support when she is pregnant, the mother says without hesitation it will be ok. And it was. But then the lies and betrayal began. First it seemed harmless, ah, love is blind. A mother will look for the good in her child and give them a chance to change. This mother gave chance after chance for her daughter to change, but instead more lies more betrayal. What does the mother get for giving her daughter all of these chances? A broken heart. The daughter who stole money, lots of money, leaves without warning and does not let her mother now speak to the baby that her mother raised, fed, clothed, sheltered, paid her medical bills, etc. Instead tells her friends that her mother is controlling her life and she needs her space. No money, no future. Where did she go? Who is now watching out for the little angel?"
Clearly we could go back and forth on these issues all day. If Casey made a statement tomorrow that she killed Caylee, someone could say "How do we KNOW that's true? She's lied before." The legal standard is "beyond a reasonable doubt" not "beyond a shadow of a doubt." Could aliens have come and taken Caylee? Well, yes. We can not completely discount that theory because we don't know if there are aliens or not; But is it really reasonable to think that's what happened? It is just NOT true that KC had no history of neglecting Caylee (her friends have talked about KC taking her to adult parties and leaving her unattended while "in another room" with TonE --balcony incident). If you argue that her friends might be lying about that, how can you accept when they say something exculpatory as "proof" (that they never witnessed physical abuse, and had a "loving, normal attachment to Caylee," for instance)? If your point is that we will never know 100% that KC did it because the world has pedophiles and secret agents and drug cartels and evil nannies and possibly aliens, then I concede. You often post that "It has not been proven in court." When KC is convicted ,(yes, I said WHEN not if) will you accept her guilt or still insist it wasn't "proven?" Can you give an example of what would prove to you that KC is guilty?
If a parent hears a loud noise, goes upstairs to find his/her child holding a hammer and there is a hole in the wall, it is reasonable to think the child has just put a hole in the wall with that hammer. Do we know it 100%? Nope! The evil neighbor child could have done it and escaped out the window before the parent got there. Look at the polls on this forum and you will see that the overwhelming majority draw the reasonable conclusion that KC is standing in front of the hole in the wall with a hammer in her hand.
Clearly we could go back and forth on these issues all day. If Casey made a statement tomorrow that she killed Caylee, someone could say "How do we KNOW that's true? She's lied before." The legal standard is "beyond a reasonable doubt" not "beyond a shadow of a doubt." Could aliens have come and taken Caylee? Well, yes. We can not completely discount that theory because we don't know if there are aliens or not; But is it really reasonable to think that's what happened? It is just NOT true that KC had no history of neglecting Caylee (her friends have talked about KC taking her to adult parties and leaving her unattended while "in another room" with TonE --balcony incident). If you argue that her friends might be lying about that, how can you accept when they say something exculpatory as "proof" (that they never witnessed physical abuse, and had a "loving, normal attachment to Caylee," for instance)? If your point is that we will never know 100% that KC did it because the world has pedophiles and secret agents and drug cartels and evil nannies and possibly aliens, then I concede. You often post that "It has not been proven in court." When KC is convicted ,(yes, I said WHEN not if) will you accept her guilt or still insist it wasn't "proven?" Can you give an example of what would prove to you that KC is guilty?
If a parent hears a loud noise, goes upstairs to find his/her child holding a hammer and there is a hole in the wall, it is reasonable to think the child has just put a hole in the wall with that hammer. Do we know it 100%? Nope! The evil neighbor child could have done it and escaped out the window before the parent got there. Look at the polls on this forum and you will see that the overwhelming majority draw the reasonable conclusion that KC is standing in front of the hole in the wall with a hammer in her hand.