Jumping in for the first time :newhere:. I am a Marine wife who left Camp Pendleton 2 years ago after being raised in the area since childhood. This has hit close to home due to my familiarity of the area and because of the military connection that surrounds this case. After reading all the posts I don't have much new information to add except for a website and Facebook observation. I did track down LP aka "Ivan" on another BDSM website that I haven't seen released in the media reports yet. Unfortunately in order to see his profile on BMEhookups you have to be a paid member. His screen name on BME is the same as his "Alpha Slaves" on the other site linked in one of the above posts. His profile picture is of him standing over 'Dee' and she's kneeling while looking up at him.
"Ivan" also has a profile on collarme that is visible. There is one picture of him and a well detailed introduction.
http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/57104/details.htm
Note: you do have to verify your age by typing it in before you can enter the site.
As for the Facebook observation I was wondering if anyone else noticed on BW's Timeline this area where she answered four questions between April 20, 2011 and June 3, 2011? The first question asks, "If you could have any superpower, what would it be?". Her answers along with 'invisibility' and 'magic' included, 'unlimited sex', and to 'cause orgasm by touch'. Her about me section also states she's interested in women and men. Granted this could all be coincidence, she could very well be beginning to explore her sexuality like all women do. I just found it interesting considering the lifestyle Lopez and Perez have been found to live.