PoirotsGirlFriday
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I'd like to echo the thank you to Caron! I still wonder if it was a sort of non-breakup-breakup (ala "Friends" TV show, "we were on a break!"). Separate colleges could IMO lead to that even between people who love each other.
I agree it might be none of our business, but just jumping off, now I'm confused re: the keys. I thought "friends" (which I took to mean local friends in Roseville/Rocklin area) took them away, but it was actually his girlfriend? So was it the girlfriend that his Mom talked to and told to give him back the keys? Or were his other friends also with him at her place? I mean hopefully she was a friend as well as romantic girlfriend, but that really confuses me. It may not even matter, but like you PoirotsGirlFriday I'm trying to understand his emotional state that night.
Total speculation and I hope this is ok, but I can see him reacting very differently if, for example, he went to break up with her and she went "oh thank goodness" as opposed to "please let's just give each other some space" as opposed to "no, no, no, don't break up with me, I love you!" I can also see the key thing really differently in that case. "You're acting weird, give me your keys" from a group of friends is really different from "no don't leave, give me your keys" from a girlfriend you're breaking up with.
It's been so long now I'm not sure if these answers even help with finding him. They might though. It might help with figuring out, was he likely to take off running, hide, end up in a mental hospital, or potentially commit suicide (boy did that hurt to type)...? Was he in a decent state of mind to take basic care of himself after the accident - i.e. finding food, water, safe or semi-safe place to stay? If so does that mean he's surviving but lost and dazed somewhere? Is he likely to return to an old friend's house and beg them to conceal his identity for now? If not, well... I really don't want to go there yet.
:goodpost: I heartily agree with and relate to everything you have here. I have the same exact questions. The key thing really threw me off as well! Because before, when it was being reported that "friends" took his keys, in my mind, I was envisioning that:
#1 Bryce was acting strangely for several days prior to the break up and his friends noticed.
#2 There were multiple friends involved who thought Bryce breaking up with KS was bizarre behavior.
#3 Multiple friends possibly knew Bryce has taken the Adderall (or as we now know, it was actually Vyanase, am I spelling that right??) and were concerned for him.
BUT...if these "friends" were actually just one "friend" the gf - now I feel like that changes things! Was Bryce acting out of character in any other ways? Did his friends notice or not? Maybe not so much after all. It may not make a difference, but it just feels like if KS was the one taking his keys away, it changes a lot of things! At least to me, in the way I had envisioned it all going down on Wednesday. Makes it seem like it all hinges more on the break up, if there weren't other people involved that day. I assumed by the mention of "friends" taking away his keys, that there was much more going on in the days leading up to the disappearance. If that makes any sense???