i find it a bit strange and offputting that many here seem to hold the assumption the dc'd harmed Fang. We have no idea. All we know is that they were dating.
This is a thread for missing person FJ, an innocent victim. Though her case is inextricably linked to JRF--despite the worst efforts of the SBCSO--it is not here. I toyed with starting a JRF missing thread but figured it would attract the same uninspiring reaction as the actual-boots-on-the-ground search in his home community.
We actually know a bit more than you let on. But for me, the only question is: What did FJ know?
We know at their first interaction on-line earlier this year, JRF had a current diagnosis, for the previous four years, of 'substance abuse and mental health issues resulting in criminal behavior' (his four arrests). But did FJ know?
It has been reported--but unsubstantiated--that a background check was conducted; verifying identity, military background and employment. But not criminal, really? A rudimentary check would reveal JRF was in the purview of the criminal justice system. So, perhaps she was aware of the circumstances and is even more saintly than I imagine.
Then again, also likely she was not aware. In which case, would JRF voluntarily disclose the nature of his sticky predicament? Judging solely on the content of character, an individual both undergoing recovery and pursuing a romantic relationship, a person of high character would make these admissions.
I'm certainly no expert, but the basic tenets of successful recovery and healthy relationships are not too dissimilar; total transparency, open/honest dialogue and an admission of shortcomings. Further, my observations are, relationships (and recovery) meeting these parameters are generally enduring whereas relationships based on deception tend to end rather quickly, sometimes dramatically.
We also know three months after their first interaction. JRF was cured of his disorders--in the determination of the Veterans Treatment Court--with his scheduled three-year probationary period halved for good behavior.
We know JRF was 'highly intelligent, functioned well in structured environments and had an unnatural capacity for adapting to extreme environments and situations'. I believe, though JRF was not 'gaming the system', he was determined to do whatever he felt necessary to end the probationary terms. I mean, have you seen the photos? Mission accomplished, all charges dismissed late April of this year, full rights restored.
We also know, twelve weeks later, FJ landed in the desert and was in the company/care of JRF for five days of excursions across the basin. Shortly thereafter FJ reported missing, JRF a week later. Two months later (3-4 weeks ago) JRF found dead, circumstances under seal. JF still missing.
<modsnip: not victim friendly/speculation based on facts not known at this time> But what did FJ know?