For those speculating that this was a family annihilator type case and only one must've made the choice, there are plenty of cases where families take themselves out because they are paranoid or think the authorities or someone else is coming or for various reason:
Grandmother and mother killed twin daughters and then themselves after the court granted temporary custody to an aunt:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.oc...or-grandmother-likely-killed-4-in-talega/amp/
And entire family of adults committed suicide together after dressing in black and taking Vicodin. No known motive.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.oc...nte-family-determined-to-be-suicide-pact/amp/
Parents in Canada try to kill them selves and kill their kids (one parent survived) after experiencing financial and other problems.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.th...n-parents-suicide-pact-police/article1146079/
A grandmother and father killed themselves and dad's 3 year old after mom filed for full custody.
https://www.google.com/amp/myfox8.c...3-year-olds-life-was-pact-between-adults/amp/
I can go on and on. These things happen.
It is interesting to me that people assume Jen was the one who made the decision or was abusing Sarah or was the narcissist in the family or was the abusive parent. And not Sarah.
Sarah is younger and more feminine and sweet looking. Other than that I see zero reason for such conclusions. Sarah is the one who pled guilty to child abuse. She lived in that house. She participated in the glossy videos and lovely photo ops. She went with the entire family to the neighbors to try to defuse the situation. She participated in the carefully timed moves everytime there was an allegation of abuse. She was the honeschooling mom who admitted
to a friend to not being able to cope.
There is zero indication she was a hapless victim to Jen.
I believe both these adults are and were responsible for what happened to these kids before they died and how they died. I believe, based on my personal experiences and a viewing of the facts and snippets of their lives we've seen from photos, videos, friends and neighbor accounts, news articles, and their countless "fans" that both were equally passionately concerned about about appearance and could not withstand the possibility of their children being taken and the facade crumbling.