mpnola
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A couple of things. First of all, GREAT JOB on getting a search together and finding more solid info than most people find in many months or years. It is unfortunate you are not getting more "official" help.
Next thing--- Once, my house flooded and I moved into a hotel for a few weeks with my toddler child. One day, I stuck him in the stroller and was going to ride him to the bounce house place. I went through the back parking lot of the movie theater, no doubt as large as that parking lot you showed. When I got the then end, I was SO frustrated to see that I was fenced all in. I really thought there would be a way to exit out that way- a car driveway, a pedestrian gate, anything! Had I not had my son with the stroller, I can tell you I would have tried to jump that sucker. I would not have turned around and walked back. But, since I couldnt, I strolled on back to the hotel and called it a day. All that is to say that if there is a way over the wall from the dumpster, I would not discount it. She might have gone through that lot (possible hiding from Sarah), not realizing she couldn't get out the other side. I wish the dogs would have been taken around the front side of that wall to see if the scent picked back up at all.
Lastly, I worked in mental health for 16 years. Yes. A person who is who is having active auditory or visual hallucinations will definitely smash a phone. Have you ever seen the parodies of a guy wearing a tin foil hat? Well, that is actually not far off, in many cases. I once had a client tell me that he had to because the government was trying to control his brain. Many times, the delusions have to do with God, the devil, government, the police, television signals, phone signals, or anything else the think can interfere or control brain activity. It is quite sad. The best way I can describe schizophrenia to people is imagine that your dreams and your awake realities combined. They are all mixed up and you can't tell which things are real or which things are your dreams appearing in the real world. It is especially terrifying for people who are first starting to experience mental health issues. Many of my clients can remember the first time they felt differently, and most tell me it was one specific drug experience. Might have been the first, might have been the 2000th, but they usually remember exactly which one it was. I am not claiming that she has Scizophrenia or was having mental health issues, I just wanted to explain a little about what is possible in that situation. Also, during those times, it would not be unlikely to be more concerned about what was going on with herself rather than thinking she needed to get a family member home. I definitely had someone tell me once that the devil had taken over his sister and he needed to get far away from her.
I will say, this doesn't usually come on without any realization from family/ friends. Has she been talking about people after her or rambling things that others perceive as odd? Or become fixated on things that weren't always an issue? (the end of the world, government take overs, etc). Was she driving fine? I would have them find out if the punching the coworker actually happened. That is a good place to start. If there was in fact no co-worker and no punch, then we might be dealing with persecutory delusions, rather than something that actually happened.
I know a couple of people have mentioned both of these things. I just wanted to elaborate. Also, I know it is super hard to track down people in hospitals, for confidentiality reasons. But, I would try to press the police for any psych calls they had. Do yall have a website that lists the 911 calls? I know we do in New Orleans. Search for suspicious person (female) or erratic behavior or anything of that nature. And try calling psych units, maybe, and ask them the best way to proceed. Ask if there is a way to fax them the missing person flier. They will ask her if they can contact family, if she is there.
Sorry its so long, yall!
Next thing--- Once, my house flooded and I moved into a hotel for a few weeks with my toddler child. One day, I stuck him in the stroller and was going to ride him to the bounce house place. I went through the back parking lot of the movie theater, no doubt as large as that parking lot you showed. When I got the then end, I was SO frustrated to see that I was fenced all in. I really thought there would be a way to exit out that way- a car driveway, a pedestrian gate, anything! Had I not had my son with the stroller, I can tell you I would have tried to jump that sucker. I would not have turned around and walked back. But, since I couldnt, I strolled on back to the hotel and called it a day. All that is to say that if there is a way over the wall from the dumpster, I would not discount it. She might have gone through that lot (possible hiding from Sarah), not realizing she couldn't get out the other side. I wish the dogs would have been taken around the front side of that wall to see if the scent picked back up at all.
Lastly, I worked in mental health for 16 years. Yes. A person who is who is having active auditory or visual hallucinations will definitely smash a phone. Have you ever seen the parodies of a guy wearing a tin foil hat? Well, that is actually not far off, in many cases. I once had a client tell me that he had to because the government was trying to control his brain. Many times, the delusions have to do with God, the devil, government, the police, television signals, phone signals, or anything else the think can interfere or control brain activity. It is quite sad. The best way I can describe schizophrenia to people is imagine that your dreams and your awake realities combined. They are all mixed up and you can't tell which things are real or which things are your dreams appearing in the real world. It is especially terrifying for people who are first starting to experience mental health issues. Many of my clients can remember the first time they felt differently, and most tell me it was one specific drug experience. Might have been the first, might have been the 2000th, but they usually remember exactly which one it was. I am not claiming that she has Scizophrenia or was having mental health issues, I just wanted to explain a little about what is possible in that situation. Also, during those times, it would not be unlikely to be more concerned about what was going on with herself rather than thinking she needed to get a family member home. I definitely had someone tell me once that the devil had taken over his sister and he needed to get far away from her.
I will say, this doesn't usually come on without any realization from family/ friends. Has she been talking about people after her or rambling things that others perceive as odd? Or become fixated on things that weren't always an issue? (the end of the world, government take overs, etc). Was she driving fine? I would have them find out if the punching the coworker actually happened. That is a good place to start. If there was in fact no co-worker and no punch, then we might be dealing with persecutory delusions, rather than something that actually happened.
I know a couple of people have mentioned both of these things. I just wanted to elaborate. Also, I know it is super hard to track down people in hospitals, for confidentiality reasons. But, I would try to press the police for any psych calls they had. Do yall have a website that lists the 911 calls? I know we do in New Orleans. Search for suspicious person (female) or erratic behavior or anything of that nature. And try calling psych units, maybe, and ask them the best way to proceed. Ask if there is a way to fax them the missing person flier. They will ask her if they can contact family, if she is there.
Sorry its so long, yall!