CA CA - Maya Millete, 39, missed daughter's birthday, Chula Vista, 7 Jan 2021

[slowpoke]

No pleas at all.

I did manage to find this quote. It is a strange half hearted quote. Moo.

,And if Maya is safe somewhere, look at the media coverage and Larry says: “I love you, just go home."

Search for Maya Milette, a missing Chula Vista mom, continues - California News Times

I don’t profess to be a grammar expert, but that whole article seems to have a lot of grammatical errors, doesn’t it? But if the quote is accurate that LM did say: “I love you, just go home,” that is another thing he has said that is unusual to me.

I feel like most would say, “I love you, just come home.”
Perhaps “just go home” is an indicator of just how separate their lives were? That is, she wouldn’t be coming home to him, but back to the house and her independent life. Or, just another example of his awkward phrasing due to anxiety. Or, something else?

 

[Curious Me]

Did I hear him right? He left his phone home on Sunday when he took off. He says he took his son to the beach, but wasn't this his daughters birthday??

Why only take his son and no phone??

What! That's new info for me. Do you have a link? I want to hear it. Boy oh boy, that is another odd thing to do, in my opinion. Must be the mind numbing. Yes, what about it being the daughter's birthday?

 

[PayrollNerd]

Posted Jan 28, 2021

Video at link
Where Is Maya Millete? Search For Missing California Mom Of 3 Continues | Access

 

[Curious Me]

Pic of them as a happy family:
‘She wouldn’t leave her kids’: Search continues for Fil-Am mom of 3 missing in Chula Vista, CA (asianjournal.com)

Find May/Maya Millete - Posts | Facebook

Maya Millete | Facebook

 

[PayrollNerd]

Published JANUARY 29, 2021

No new info but just linking it for history.

‘She wouldn’t leave her kids’: Search continues for Fil-Am mom of 3 missing in Chula Vista, CA —

 

[Curious Me]

But it sounds like the sister had talked to her very recently? don't know why he would get on her phone and tell the sister that they were in the middle of a fight..

Sister had said the last time they actually talked on the phone was Jan. 3rd., so I'm guessing they were texting after that. I don't believe there was a text about the fight, but if there was maybe it wasn't Maya texting. One thing LM seemed to want everyone to know was that they'd had a fight and maybe Maya took off. The fight seems crucial to the story. MOO though.

 

[Dre]

Sister had said the last time they actually talked on the phone was Jan. 3rd., so I'm guessing they were texting after that. I don't believe there was a text about the fight, but if there was maybe it wasn't Maya texting. One thing LM seemed to want everyone to know was that they'd had a fight and maybe Maya took off. The fight seems crucial to the story. MOO though.

I still think he would NOT have texted the sister with her phone about a fight, but felt he had to come forward with that since she did tell someone. Would look sketchy if he didn’t bring it up and it came to light later. If he did something and made up the fight and texted about it pretending to be her, he’s a huge idiot as that right there is the biggest red flag for someone going missing in a domestic situation. Moo!

 

[InSoCal]

Sister had said the last time they actually talked on the phone was Jan. 3rd., so I'm guessing they were texting after that. I don't believe there was a text about the fight, but if there was maybe it wasn't Maya texting. One thing LM seemed to want everyone to know was that they'd had a fight and maybe Maya took off. The fight seems crucial to the story. MOO though.

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I still think he would NOT have texted the sister with her phone about a fight, but felt he had to come forward with that since she did tell someone. Would look sketchy if he didn’t bring it up and it came to light later. If he did something and made up the fight and texted about it pretending to be her, he’s a huge idiot as that right there is the biggest red flag for someone going missing in a domestic situation. Moo!

In moo, I think it would be smart to lie about something minor happening Thursday if something serious could have happened Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.

 

[rosesfromangels]

I don’t profess to be a grammar expert, but that whole article seems to have a lot of grammatical errors, doesn’t it? But if the quote is accurate that LM did say: “I love you, just go home,” that is another thing he has said that is unusual to me.

I feel like most would say, “I love you, just come home.”
Perhaps “just go home” is an indicator of just how separate their lives were? That is, she wouldn’t be coming home to him, but back to the house and her independent life. Or, just another example of his awkward phrasing due to anxiety. Or, something else?

If I understand correctly, English is not his first language, or perhaps he speaks “pidgin” English, which could account for the delivery and confusion.

amateur opinion and speculation

 

[Curious Me]

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In moo, I think it would be smart to lie about something minor happening Thursday if something serious could have happened Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.

I think you're suggesting something could have happened to Maya before Thursday? It would depend on who actually saw her on Thursday. Her 9 yr. old said she saw her in the home on Thursday. I don't know if Maya was in contact with her work, coworkers, or other family members on Thursday. I think the attempt to confuse the timeline saying she was heard in the house on Friday is bad enough. I've been stuck on that from the very beginning. JMO

 

[Dre]

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In moo, I think it would be smart to lie about something minor happening Thursday if something serious could have happened Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.

oh okay yes, I see what you're saying!
Still would have been smart if it was NOT relationship related though, seems like a huge risk to peg yourself as a possible antagonist. moo

 

[rosesfromangels]

oh okay yes, I see what you're saying!
Still would have been smart if it was NOT relationship related though, seems like a huge risk to peg yourself as a possible antagonist. moo[/]

He may be guileless

amateur opinion and speculation

 

[BlkMtnGirl]

He may be guileless

amateur opinion and speculation

I’ve gotta tell you, @rosesfromangels, I really love your optimism. Although I did have to look up the word. Lol

 

[InSoCal]

He may be guileless

amateur opinion and speculation

I hope so.

 

[rosesfromangels]

I get fooled now and again, but fundamentally I still believe most people are good, but they do bad things that surprise even themselves.
I hope this isn’t the case here.

Still holding on to the tiniest shred of hope for an unexpected happy outcome.

amateur opinion and speculation

 

[rosesfromangels]

I hope so.

Me too. The alternative would mean the children would lose two parents, in different ways.

amateur opinion and speculation

 

[SuziQ]

What! That's new info for me. Do you have a link? I want to hear it. Boy oh boy, that is another odd thing to do, in my opinion. Must be the mind numbing. Yes, what about it being the daughter's birthday?

How old is the little boy? TIA.

 

[Curious Me]

Don't forget, Larry kept asking family to wait until after 3:30 am to file a missing person’s report because after 3:30am would be unusual. Nobody hearing from her since Thursday would be unusual enough for most people. It was unusual enough for her sister and parents. Not on the fence :-(

Phone call with husband of missing Chula Vista mom, Maya Millete - ABC 10NEWS San Diego - Omny.fm

At the 03:00 minute mark he is saying maybe they should wait to report her missing. He wanted to wait until after 3:30 a.m., but Maya's family was right on it a lot sooner. They found out they had to check hospitals first, they did, and then by 2:30 (was that p.m. or a.m.???) they were able to file the missing person's report. He even says something about them asking neighbors for camera footage right away! It's almost as though the family knew more.

I guess he was dreading the LE process which is understandable, especially for a private person.

Is it possible he actually did expect her to come home sometime after 2:30 a.m.? The difference between him and Maya's family in their frantic alarm and his casualness is puzzling and of interest. They came to that house seeming to know something serious had occurred, and he's still not realizing she's missing until they get there Saturday morning. Then, he wants to stall reporting her missing. He throws in her needing her space to the point it becomes his excuse for not even noticing her gone for an entire day and night. Whereas, Maya's family is pulling all the alarms. It's such a blaring difference. Without Maya's family, I'm not sure if Maya would've been reported missing by her husband of 21 yrs. at all or for a long time. He explains they were that estranged.

 

[Curious Me]

How old is the little boy? TIA.

The little boy is 4 yrs. old. Daughters are 9 and 11 yrs. old.

 

[Eloise]

I feel it may be easy to forget they were estranged and essentially already living separately AFAIK, just under the one roof and coparenting. So I wouldn't expect a 'normal' husband reaction.

Sometimes I feel like these splinters are getting uncomfortable, and I am facing one way, but I just still haven't seen what I need to see to fully jump off this fence.