Since some are very insistent on going on and on and on about this let me clarify for the millionth time. Normal as in the norm as in what is often the case. If someone is insistent amongst her super wealthy lifestyle normally the sahm parents use daycare that is STILL not the norm! Because most of the country is not super wealthy. In my modest upper middle class gated community the only moms that I know of that use daycare or nanny services have a job. Even if it's just a part time job or realtor or something.
This actually still doesn't pertain to this case because we are fairly sure they are not super wealthy. They live in a modest home and he has a modest job. So definitely not the case here. The reason I was wondering what she does with her time is because I wondered if she meets with people and that should be considered. My kids are in school during the day and I volunteer twice a week for a few hours at a food pantry. I meet some oddballs, they know what car I drive, etc. I have never had an issue of any kind but if I were to come up missing I would think that'd be a logical angle to look at. Especially since we otherwise have NOTHING to go on. As far as I know she gardens and jogs. That's like zero adult interaction which I doubt is true. I am pretty sure she must have hobbies outside of gardening with her children/crafts with her children. And daycare signals to ME that she has something going on.
I still strongly suspect daycare is actually preschool. My kids went to pre-school for 3 hours a day 3 days a week (age 4). It was just enough time to do laundry, tidy up, etc after you take away the drive time to and from.
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