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Justice for Stacy
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I do completely agree with your point on personal responsibility. But, I don't agree that Casey was not affected by growing up in the Anthony household. You are right, at some point we all got to put on our big boy/girl pants and suck it up, but Casey was in her early 20's and hasn't lived out of her house yet (except for the 31 days), I don't believe someone would be able to adjust to adult life and have a complete turn around with the issues you've suffered from being in that house.
There are people out there who have to have years of therapy to cope with the trauma they suffered in their childhood. And, you can't look at someone and say "well, that's not trauma, I've suffered worse." Trauma is in the eye of the beholder, only you know how it affects you, not how it'll effect someone else.
IMO, Casey would be taking on her personal responsibility by getting therapy for everything she's endured in life. It's not responsible to continue to bury things that are affecting your life and pretend they're not there.
Everyone is affected by growing up in their households and I don't believe the Anthony household was any different than a thousand other households in the U.S. and I certainly don't believe there was any molestation going on in that home. So what else could constitute trauma in her life ... not getting what she wanted for Xmas, Dad paying more attention to Lee and not her, Mom putting her down for being a bad mom or lying about a job. These things go on in many homes and the son/daughter in question does not turn out to be someone who kills their child.
IMO, some people are born with a chemical imbalance ... an imbalance that causes them maybe to snap more easily than others, or to kill when thing are not going their way. I'm not a psychiatrist, but I know there are studies that have been done to indicate whether folks might be more prone to violence than others. Couple that with a mother who swept everything under the rug (including the pregnancy) and the rest we know about. Most mothers do not want to admit that anything could be wrong mentally with one of their kids.
To me, therapy might be a band-aid solution to FCA. She needs to be checked out physiologically to see if something's not right upstairs. Until someone proves to me that she suffered some kind of trauma in that home, I'll go on believing that she is just like my brother. A enabled pathological liar who refuses to honor their obligation in life to live like most of the rest of us ...btw, my mother refused the notion that my brother has a chemical imbalance and he's still living with her and lying to her today at 50+ years of age in the same codependent relationship they had when he was 18.