casesensitive
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That was my first though too. Because I don't want to believe that it's anything more heinous. With tens of people walking through the home for 3 days, there must be a lot of DNA to sift thru.
No one though to remove the sign at 4pm? Someone show up after hours and "come on in"?
I find it truly offputting that there's more than one public reference to "step" children/grandchildren. *WHO* does that? As a teen I overheard an older relative comment about the pleasure over the birth of finally a 'real' kin (the rest of us adopted)... hurt... but at least that wasn't meant to be overheard. If you married the spouse (and his/her family) or welcomed incoming son/daughter in law (and his/her family) WTF with the 'step' - they are all your kids or grandkids now. What do you accomplish by enumerating them differently? I don't get it. It's the same to me as someone presenting "birth" kids vs "adopted/chosen" kids. They're ALL your kids. Their provenance is no one else's business such that you have to label them.
I totally agree that children from a blended family should all be treated equally. LE have already looked in to the family's dynamics, and have stated that there are no custody issues, which is an important step in ruling out motives. Other people were also wondering why only one grandchild slept over. In an apparent abduction case, it is helpful to know these kind of details, and is not meant to be merely labeling and hurtful.