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Yes indeed!Thanks button insufficient for this one, marspiter. Excellent post!
To all my fellow posters...what a great discussion!!
Yes indeed!Thanks button insufficient for this one, marspiter. Excellent post!
I don't think KC suffers from MPD but along the same lines as logicalgirl's post above, I think KC might live in a world of 'shoulds'. Somewhere along the line she lost herself, her own essence. She may have been shamed or scolded too many times or who knows why. But we have seen CA's expectation for perfection and have gotten glimpses of how she lives with blinders on. KC was inventing herself to live up to her mother's expectations. KC watched how GA, her father, operated and took notes.
KC got into the habit of telling people what she thought made her look like a whole functioning person, the one her mother wanted her to be. No one really questioned her and she liked the elevated status her lies gave her even though deep down she knew she was a fraud. No one apparently questioned her so as time passed her make believe world was working for her and became her reality in a way. :waitasec:
I sense GA put forth much of the same posing but to a lesser degree. People looked past his bs too except his daughter knew the truth.
I've only heard her use the word ME and I, so I have a problem with the MPD defense. Even if the defense throws it on the table, if I was a juror, it wouldn't mean much. She still (allegedly) killed Caylee. Should be a historic trial full of twists and turns.
MOO
Mel
ETA: I think they're more likely to throw out the PTSD than MPD. Easier to explain if she was molested and abused as a child. We've already seen hints of that!
And through said trial too. She's so confident that she will expect a jury to believe her lies, tooITA! As crazy as it sounds, I honestly think she thought she could just tell LE whatever she wanted to and they were going to take her word for it and go away! And, when they started to question her, she just kept lying and lying and defying them the whole way. As GA put it, she will take something as far as she can take it. I think she plans on taking this charade right up to a trial.
There, you see - while I blither on and on in post after post, Marspiter swans in and succinctly posts what I have been trying multiple times to say, except clearly and concisely and with documented backup.:doh:
What took you so long Marspiter? LOL I was dying on the vine here!
Casey did benefit from her lies.
She told people she was an event planner and she got respect without putting forth ANY effort. It is the same thing Mark Hacking did when he pretended to be taking pre-med classes. Instead of really going to school, Mark Hacking spent his days playing video games at a convenience store. Instead of going to "work" ICA texted, instant messaged and collected icons for her social networking pages. Hacking bought books to fool his wife. ICA forged e-mails. And as a result they didn't get nagged or hassled about being lazy. Cindy babysat for Casey after working all day so that Casey could "work".
Scott Peterson didn't say he was "single" because one of his "other" personalities had "come out". He said he was single because he was afraid Amber wouldn't have anything to do with him if she knew he had a wife. Just like Cindy would not have watched Caylee for an "Anything but Clothes" party. Just it was less hassle for Casey to tell Cindy that she and Caylee were spending the night with Zanny instead of in Ricardo's bed.
I don't believe Casey thought she really had a job any more than the guy who inflates his resume really thinks he went to college. I think Casey made up co-workers and a nanny so people would believe she had a job just like somebody who fudges a college degree sometimes has to make up grade point averages. When Casey took money from her grandparents to buy Caylee's bithday cake, I don't think it was because Casey was deluded and thought she was cashing her own "work" check. I think Casey was very thoughtfully hoping that her aging grandmother (that was under immense pressure because of her sick husband) wouldn't notice.
Anyone who doubts how deliberately manipulative ICA is needs to reread ICA's jailhouse letters to her new BFF Robyn. That instant intimacy and sugary sweetness is pure con, imo.
Or, NONE OF THE ABOVE! She's a sociopath, a liar, and a killer, IMO. Her parents always bought her lies rather than argue, and she thought the police would do the same. WRONG!
Bingo! There we have it - ITA!
I keep wondering why posters think she "shut out" the 31 days. If she is a sociopath, as we suspect, she simply didn't care that she killed Caylee, who was no longer any use to her. The only shutting out she did was not to see her parents in person - until they "got over" Caylee being gone or ICA got out of town.
Robert Hare tells of a client of his. The client, a sociopath, was walking down the street and within ten feet from her, a child was struck and killed by a car. The child's mother was grief stricken, as were other passersby - the sociopath was focused on the blood that had gotten on her new shoes.
The dead child and the grief stricken mother had no effect on her.
Casey is still the master at fooling people, even the public. So many blame Cindy for all of Casey's problems just like Jesse and his Dad blamed Cindy due to Casey's lies about her family. It's almost unbelieveable that one person's manipulations could reach so many people through the media. Cindy made it plain in her myspace statements that Casey had changed after having Caylee, and many friends and family also verified this. A kid in elementary, middle, and high school might lie and get away with some things but there's no way they could be on the level that Casey is now without being institutionalized by the State or juvenile division and the public would have heard many more stories about Casey. I have a feeling that Casey (due to her oddness) wasn't very popular and didn't even know that many other kids growing up to cause trouble or get into much. Cindy had finally discovered that Casey is a sociopath and was going to take steps, a big rejection and an end to some manipulations. Why is Casey given more leeway than the male psychopaths who go ape when faced with final rejection. Casey didn't hate Cindy more than anyone else. Casey wants everyone to blame her mother, and now George and Lee. She hates everyone. If this stuff with blaming Cindy goes on during the trial and jurors fall for it, Casey will never be properly punished and it won't be Cindy's fault then.
She suffers from "mistruths" and "halftruths" as described by her very own mother Cindy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is all I have to say.
BBM.
Neither do I. I am willing to acknowledge it as a possible defense tactic, but nothing more. I simply think KC is a liar and a thief. Nothing special or out of the ordinary. Just a person who has low morals and bad character. A person who cares only for herself and is only interested in others to the capacity that they serve a purpose to enhance or help her. I think KC liked having Caylee as a baby because she received a lot of attention as a young mother. Lots of ooohing and ahhhing that goes with new babies. But when the newness wore off, ICA realized she had been strapped with a lifetime committment that was going to be a lot of work and self-sacrifice, and ICA does not like to do either work or sacrifice. That's what other's do, not her. She made a decision to get rid of Caylee and she did it. Nothing special or remarkable about it. She is just another murderer. JMO
BBM.
Neither do I. I am willing to acknowledge it as a possible defense tactic, but nothing more. I simply think KC is a liar and a thief. Nothing special or out of the ordinary. Just a person who has low morals and bad character. A person who cares only for herself and is only interested in others to the capacity that they serve a purpose to enhance or help her. I think KC liked having Caylee as a baby because she received a lot of attention as a young mother. Lots of ooohing and ahhhing that goes with new babies. But when the newness wore off, ICA realized she had been strapped with a lifetime committment that was going to be a lot of work and self-sacrifice, and ICA does not like to do either work or sacrifice. That's what other's do, not her. She made a decision to get rid of Caylee and she did it. Nothing special or remarkable about it. She is just another murderer. JMO
RBBM, chefmom, brings out a point with which I've been struggling. I've been trying to determine at what point character and psych diagnoses intersect. Are "personality disorders" only a descriptor of "character" flaws or are they a valid cause to give a person some tolerance. Do these diagnoses carry with them any form of acceptability of what, in the olden days, I used to call poor moral character?
I have a huge bag of decisions and actions that I would be happy to put away in a box with a nice neat label on it if that would dissolve (or even lessen) my responsibility in those matters I regret.
I'm not being confrontational and hope it doesn't sound that way. I am really curious about how to reconcile the opposing thoughts I keep having in my own head!
Your post edited for brevity.Caylee's "phone call" to Casey: When asked by police what Caylee said in the phone call, why not say, "She was crying and saying, 'Mommy, I want to come home. Zanny has me.'" or whatever a liar would want to get across. Why not claim the people with Caylee said on the phone, "don't involve the police or we'll kill the child." Or better yet, "Mommy, a man has me, I don't know him, I want to come home" or whatever. Not describe something like a dream version of the father's day video. What's the point of that? Why mention shoes also? And she also insisted that Caylee was not worried or upset at all. That seems like a self-comforting element inserted by her mind.
A sane liar would also know the phone call obviously would not show up on the phone record, so why invent this at all? And why stay in town vegging with Tony and his friends for a month and not report anything? Just report the disappearance immediately and say a stranger took Caylee. (Casey is not stupid, apparently she was quite bright, according to friends who discussed here, and we heard also that she was in AP Physics when in highschool. So she is not a dumb person, it's not due to stupidity.)
And the questions about her workplace, why not just say, "I actually don't work, I'm in a situation where we live with my parents and I take care of Caylee during the days, I've never admitted to my parents that I didn't return to work." or whatever, instead of "I work at Universal studios, my phones are from there" + lots of details which would be proved untrue immediately. Why not invent lies that would help her if she was going to tell lies?
But multiple personality or just delusional, or traumatized or confused due to some cause that we don't know, still seem very possible to me.